Dealing With Waking Up In The Night

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As ever: if the question/request can be answered briefly, we’ll do it here in our Q&A Thursday edition. If not, we’ll make a main feature of it shortly afterwards!

So, no question/request too big or small

❝I’m now in my sixties and find that I invariably wake up at least once during the night. Is this normal? Even if it is, I would still like, once in a while, to sleep right through like a teenager. How might this be achieved, without pills?❞

Most people wake up briefly between sleep cycles, and forget doing so. But waking up for more than a brief moment is indeed best avoided. In men of your age, if you’re waking to pee (especially if it’s then not actually that easy to pee), it can be a sign of an enlarged prostate. Which is again a) normal b) not optimal.

By “without pills” we’ll assume you mean “without sleeping pills”. There are options to treat an enlarged prostate, including well-established supplements. We did a main feature on this:

Prostate Health: What You Should Know

If the cause of waking up is something else, then again this is common for everyone as we get older, and again it’s not optimal. But since there are so many possible causes (and thus solutions), it’s more than we can cover in less than a main feature, so we’ll have to revisit this later.

Meanwhile, take care!

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  • Gut-Healthy Sunset Soup

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    So-called for its gut-healthy ingredients, and its flavor profile being from the Maghreb (“Sunset”) region, the western half of the N. African coast.

    You will need

    • 1 can chickpeas (do not drain)
    • 1 cup low-sodium vegetable stock
    • 1 small onion, finely chopped
    • 1 carrot, finely chopped
    • 2 tbsp sauerkraut, drained and chopped (yes, it is already chopped, but we want it chopped smaller so it can disperse evenly in the soup)
    • 2 tbsp tomato paste
    • 1 tbsp harissa paste (adjust per your heat preference)
    • 1 tbsp ras el-hanout
    • ¼ bulb garlic, crushed
    • Juice of ½ lemon
    • ¼ tsp MSG or ½ tsp low-sodium salt
    • Extra virgin olive oil
    • Optional: herb garnish; we recommend cilantro or flat-leaf parsley

    Method

    (we suggest you read everything at least once before doing anything)

    1) Heat a little oil in a sauté pan or similar (something suitable for combination cooking, as we’ll be frying first and then adding liquids), and fry the onion and carrot until the onion is soft and translucent; about 5 minutes.

    2) Stir in the garlic, tomato paste, harissa paste, and ras el-hanout, and fry for a further 1 minute.

    3) Add the remaining ingredients* except the lemon juice. Bring to the boil and then simmer for 5 minutes.

    *So yes, this includes adding the “chickpea water” also called “aquafaba”; it adds flavor and also gut-healthy fiber in the form of oligosaccharides and resistant starches, which your gut microbiota can use to make short-chain fatty acids, which improve immune function and benefit the health in more ways than we can reasonably mention as a by-the-way in a recipe.

    4) Stir in the lemon juice, and serve, adding a herb garnish if you wish.

    Enjoy!

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  • Behind Book Recommendations

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    It’s Q&A Day!

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    So, no question/request to big or small; they’ll just get sorted accordingly

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    Q: What’s the process behind the books you recommend? You seem to have a limitless stream of recommendations

    We do our best!

    The books we recommend are books that…

    • are on Amazon—it makes things tidy, consistent, and accessible. And if you end up buying one of the books, we get a small affiliate commission*.
    • we have read—we would say “obviously”, but you might be surprised how many people write about books without having read them.
    • pertain in at least large part to health and/or productivity.
    • are written by humans—bookish people (and especially Kindle Unlimited users) may have noticed lately that there are a lot of low quality AI-written books flooding the market, sometimes with paid 5-star reviews to bolster them. It’s frustrating, but we can tell the difference and screen those out.
    • are of a certain level of quality. They don’t have to be “top 5 desert-island books”, because well, there’s one every day and the days keep coming. But they do have to genuinely deliver the value that we describe, and merit a sincere recommendation.
    • are varied—we try to not give a run of “samey” books one after another. We will sometimes review a book that covers a topic another previously-reviewed book did, but it must have something about it that makes it different. It may be a different angle or a different writing style, but it needs something to set it apart.

    *this is from Amazon and isn’t product-specific, so this is not affecting our choice of what books to review at all—just that they will be books that are available on Amazon.

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  • The Medicinal Chef – by Dale Pinnock

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    The philosophy here is very much like our own—to borrow from Hippocrates: “let food be thy medicine”. Obviously please do also let medicine be thy medicine if you need it, but the point is that food is a very good starting place for combatting a lot of disease.

    To this end, instead of labelling the recipes with such things as “V”, “Ve”, “GF” and suchlike, it assumes we can tell those things from the ingredients lists, and instead labels things per what they are especially good for:

    • S: skin
    • J: joints & bones
    • R: respiratory system
    • I: immune system
    • M: metabolic health
    • N: nervous system and mental health
    • H: heart and circulation
    • D: digestive system
    • U: reproductive & urinary systems

    As for the recipes themselves… They’re a lot like the recipes we share here at 10almonds in their healthiness, skill level, and balance of easy-to-find ingredients with the occasional “order it online” items that punch above their weight. In fact, we’ll probably modify some of the recipes for sharing here.

    Bottom line: if you’re looking for genuinely healthy recipes that are neither too basic nor too arcane, this book has about 80 of them.

    Click here to check out The Medicinal Chef: Healthy Every Day, and be healthy every day!

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  • Quiet Your Mind And Get To Sleep – by Dr. Colleen Carney & Dr. Rachel Manber

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    One of the biggest problems with disrupted sleep is how it relates to other conditions, especially chronic pain or mental health difficulties—each part of it makes the other part(s) worse.

    How, then, to interrupt that cycle, and enjoy better sleep that allows one to improve the other things too? Of course, you can tackle all parts of it in any order, but this book deals with it from a “sleep first” angle, with the philosophy that you’ll then be well-rested and better able to take on the other things.

    The authors use an approach based in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I), which you’ve probably encountered elsewhere, but the difference here is that the authors don’t assume that all your problems can be just flowcharted away (which is otherwise a common weakness of CBT; attempts to note that the thing isn’t as bad as you automatically assumed will fail, if the thing really is that bad).

    Instead, we see tools for improving sleep from the inside out, examining in detail how sleep works and what can go wrong with it, before then troubleshooting sleep-incompatible behaviors, optimizing our sleep system, and, as the title promises, quieting our mind. The authors give us tools for change to implement in all parts of this, including tools for changing our way of thinking about sleep, when often the stress of sleeplessness can, by painful irony, contribute to our sleeplessness.

    It’s not all about head-stuff though; the authors do also cover peripheral matters including discussing quite an assortment of substances and medications that can help, harm, or both).

    Lastly, the authors talk us through creating a plan, including working out in advance the possible challenges we may face (due to factors unforeseen by the authors, but known to us) and how we’ll overcome them or, if necessary, work around them.

    The style is to-the-point self-help pop-science, without undue jargon, and/but with copious citations throughout, and an extensive bibliography, itself preceded by a generous set of resource-containing appendices.

    Bottom line: if you struggle with sleep and that problem is comorbid with something else (e.g. chronic pain, stress, anxiety, depression, PTSD, etc—actually the authors cover far more conditions than we’ve had room to mention here) then this is an excellent book to tackle your sleep holistically with those things in mind.

    Click here to check out Quiet Your Mind And Get To Sleep, and rest well!

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  • The Large-Scale Effects Of Mindful Eating

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    We’ve written before about mindful eating; our first article on the topic was putting a spotlight on Dr. Rupy “The Kitchen Doctor” Aula, and his recommendations:

    Interoception: Improving Our Awareness Of Body Cues

    For the most part, mindful eating is thought of as a way to slow down our consumption of any given meal, and thus appreciate it more, as well as enjoying better digestion (and thus, better nutrient absorption—more on that at the end of today’s feature, in the “learn more” section).

    Indeed, it’s often (rightly) touted as a way to Hack Your Hunger ← our article on same, for which mindful eating is one part

    But what about the big picture?

    What the French discovered

    A French team of researchers (Dr. Pauline Paolassini-Guesnier et al.) investigated mindful eating on a large (n=13,768) scale.

    Since this needs defining in order to do science to it, mindful eating was defined for the purposes of this study as being present, attentive, and non-judgmental during eating, responding to internal cues rather than external triggers. These items were measured by questionnaire, along with other factors such as hunger/satiety, and food journal recording what people actually ate.

    Higher mindful eating scores correlated with:

    • Increased adherence to healthy plant-based diets.
    • Reduced intake of unhealthy plant-based foods, meat, and dairy.
    • Higher likelihood of being vegetarian, pescatarian, or vegan.

    Note: this study in no way promoted, suggested, or asked leading questions about, adherence to a healthy plant-based diet, or avoidance of animal products. These were simply observed results.

    Interestingly, no comparable association was found between mindful eating and fish consumption (or lack thereof). There are two reasonable hypotheses to explain this:

    • When it comes to health, there is more growing awareness about the harmful effects of various kinds of terrestrial meat (especially red meat, and pork which brings similar metabolic risks) and dairy, while fish is popularly still considered healthy in moderation (science broadly agrees).
    • When it comes to ethical considerations, humans tend to empathize more with our fellow mammals than we do with fish, and this may also sway decisions about dietary choices.

    We are a health science publication, not moral philosophy publication, so we’ve not written any ethical treatises here, but we have written on the topic of the health risks (and benefits) of animal products: Do We Need Animal Products To Be Healthy?

    There were some limitations, most notably that the study sample over-represented health-conscious people, and the cross-sectional design on the study can’t confirm causality (i.e. it looks a lot like mindful eating promotes these healthier dietary patterns, but it could be that the healthier dietary patterns promote mindful eating, or both).

    You can read the paper in full, here: Mindful eating is associated with a healthier plant-based diet in the NutriNet-Santé study

    Want to learn more?

    If you’d like to take up mindful eating, we wrote a step-by-step guide:

    Mindful Eating: How To Get More Out Of What’s On Your Plate

    Enjoy!

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  • Is It Worth Taking Testosterone In Menopause?

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    It’s Q&A Day at 10almonds!

    Have a question or a request? We love to hear from you!

    In cases where we’ve already covered something, we might link to what we wrote before, but will always be happy to revisit any of our topics again in the future too—there’s always more to say!

    As ever: if the question/request can be answered briefly, we’ll do it here in our Q&A Thursday edition. If not, we’ll make a main feature of it shortly afterwards!

    So, no question/request too big or small 😎

    ❝Why are some people recommending taking testosterone for menopause, doesn’t testosterone go up in menopause anyway?❞

    A good question with an interesting answer!

    To answer the second part first though: testosterone goes up relative to estrogen, and this relative rise of testosterone is part of what’s responsible for androgenic (masculinizing) effects that occur in menopause. This is a process that, if untreated, will continue to have cumulative effects over time for the rest of one’s life.

    See also: Menopause, & When Not To Let Your Guard Down

    However, while testosterone goes up relative to estrogen, it actually goes down in terms of its own actual numbers—it’s just that testosterone undergoes a slow, gradual decline, while estrogen plummets quickly. Thus, because of the shortage of estrogen to oppose its masculinizing effects, even the technically now-lower total amount of testosterone is able to do more than the previously higher (but opposed by estrogen) levels were able to do.

    It’s worth noting that prior to menopause, most women produce about 3x more testosterone than estrogen—it’s just that estrogen is a lot more powerful, mol for mol, mg for mg.

    So of course, when that estrogen drops off, testosterone takes the wheel.

    See also: What You Should Have Been Told About The Menopause Beforehand

    You may be wondering where this testosterone comes from: circulating testosterone is produced by the ovaries (25%) and the adrenal glands (25%), and the rest comes from peripheral conversion of adrenal androgens in fat cells (50%). So, if for example you have a bilateral ovariectomy (also called oophorectomy), then you’ll only actually take a 25% hit to testosterone levels, assuming normal function beforehand. In contrast, someone having a bilateral orchiectomy (also called orchidectomy, and is the removal of the testes) would take a 95% hit to testosterone levels, assuming normal function beforehand.

    This is because the ovaries/testes are (usually, aside from in some intersex conditions) specialized to produce mostly estrogen or testosterone, respectively, since they were differentiated during gestation (prior to that, they were the same basic undifferentiated gonads).

    Alright, that’s the “doesn’t testosterone go up in menopause anyway?” part covered, now onto the “why are some people recommending taking testosterone for menopause?” part!

    Why it gets prescribed

    Testosterone—albeit at much lower levels than for men—can be important in women for bone density and muscle mass, cognitive function, mood, sexual function, and energy.

    See: Female androgen insufficiency: the Princeton consensus statement on definition, classification, and assessment

    Of those 5 things, there is one that stands out as the reason that’s usually the reason, and that’s…

    ❝Numerous studies have shown that adding testosterone to hormonal therapy can improve sexual function and general wellbeing among women during their menopause. A recent systematic review and meta-analysis of testosterone treatment in women has provided robust support for a trial of testosterone in women when clinically indicated. In postmenopausal women, testosterone supplementation improved several domains of sexual response, including sexual desire, pleasure, arousal, orgasm, and self-image.

    Read in full: Should we be prescribing testosterone to perimenopausal and menopausal women? A guide to prescribing testosterone for women in primary care

    You may be wondering: are there any side effects?

    And the answer is yes, but with nuance that’s worth understanding:

    A significant rise in the amount of LDL-cholesterol, and reductions in the amounts of total cholesterol, HDL-cholesterol, and triglycerides, were seen with testosterone administered orally, but not when administered non-orally (e.g. by transdermal patch or cream).

    An overall increase in weight* was recorded with testosterone treatment. No effects of testosterone were reported for body composition, musculoskeletal variables, or cognitive measures, although the number of women who contributed data for these outcomes was small.

    Testosterone was associated with a significantly greater likelihood of reporting acne and [facial] hair growth, but no serious adverse events were recorded.❞

    *However, since no effects were reported for body composition (i.e. they probably didn’t record it), there is a strong chance that the increase in weight was due to testosterone-induced increase in muscle mass, not an increase in fat. If anything, testosterone will tend towards reducing body fat percentage (which is why men’s healthy body fat levels are lower than women’s healthy body fat levels, on average; it is hormones that mediate this).

    Read in full: Safety and efficacy of testosterone for women: a systematic review and meta-analysis of randomised controlled trial data

    Further,

    ❝Androgenic Side Effects:

    Exogenous androgen given to women in sufficient quantities or for a sufficient duration can promote androgenic side effects such as acne, hirsutism, and, in extreme cases, virilization.

    Virilization includes deepening of the voice, clitoromegaly, masculinization of body habitus, and androgenic alopecia.

    About some those terms:

    • Androgenic alopecia = male pattern baldness; actually the same condition as female pattern baldness, but the visual pattern is slightly different according to testosterone levels.
    • Clitoromegaly = the clitoris is receiving hormone-mediated instructions to be a penis (bearing in mind, these two organs are analogous, and were the same undifferentiated organ before they were normally differentiated during gestation), and as such, the visible glans clitoris (the part you can see) will grow (up to an inch or so) and start responding to stimulation like a penis instead of like a clitoris (what feels good to it will change accordingly), and the sensation of orgasm will change too. While many people might not mind this, it’s definitely something worth knowing about in advance!

    Read in full: The Safety of Testosterone Therapy in Women

    So, while we are neither your gynecologist nor your endocrinologist, we can say that the decision-making process might look something like this:

    1. Are your T-levels in healthy female ranges (5–55ng/DL, or 0.2–1.9nmol/L)? If so, supplementation will not be indicated for most women.
    2. If they’re below that, are you experiencing any of the problems commonly associated with such, of which the most evident is usually sexual function (where other* causes of loss of sexual function have been ruled out or otherwise adequately addressed)?
    3. If you are, do you want to fix that more than you want to avoid the side effects of taking T?

    *for example, such as discussed in Come As You Are – by Dr. Emily Nagoski

    If so, then talking to a potential prescriber seems like a fine option.

    But! There is one last problem, and it’s hardly insurmountable, but it is an inconvenience. For obvious reasons, that vast majority of supplemental testosterone produced is made for men. Now, in and of itself this isn’t an issue; it’s the exact same substance and will work the exact same way in you as it will in a man.

    However, it does mean that the doses in which testosterone is most readily available, tend to be aimed at delivering testosterone in normal male quantities, which is about 10x what you’ll want (unless your intention is actually to trans your gender, in which case, congratulations on your manliness). This means that, assuming you want a normal female amount of testosterone, then—depending on the source—you may have to get a bit fiddly with it, since you’re going to be taking the amount that the manufacturer expected to be a daily dose, and making that last 10 days.

    For example, if you get T-gel in a dispenser at the standard 1.62% percent/20.25mg per pump, then if a man is prescribed 2 pumps per day then you might be prescribed 0.2 pumps per day. It’s the medical equivalent of a recipe that calls for ⅕ of an egg, which is awkward, and does create risks of accidentally taking more than you wanted.

    One last note…

    If the issue is libido, you might want to try progesterone (if you’re not already on it) before you try testosterone, as that does boost libido, and is also responsible for a number of other important things, including playing a critical role in bone turnover rates:

    Progesterone Menopausal HRT: When, Why, And How To Benefit

    And if it’s specifically vaginal dryness that’s the issue, often testosterone is the opposite of what’s needed (though DHEA can help):

    Vaginal Dryness In Menopause | Causes & Solutions

    Enjoy!

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