5 Biggest Health Mistakes As A Middle-Aged Woman

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Dr. Ruth Machin advises:

Don’t trip up

Her mistakes were as follows:

  • Not prioritizing exercise early enough: like many, she avoided sport because of negative school experiences, and only started regular movement later in life. She now does strength training for bone density and metabolic health, and makes gym visits easier and more rewarding with a personal trainer.
  • Assuming normal weight meant healthy eating: she ate a lot of refined carbs, believing her slim frame protected her. With a family history of diabetes and after studying nutrition, she learned about insulin resistance and visceral fat. Now she focuses on low-GI, high-fiber foods like fruits, vegetables, legumes, and whole grains.
  • Using alcohol to unwind: during her medical training and career, like many doctors, she leaned on alcohol to relax. Amongst its other deleterious effects, this harmed her sleep and, in time, also worsened her menopause symptoms. She now limits herself to one glass once or twice a week.
  • Accepting worry as fixed: she assumed she was simply a worrier and that was that; learning about growth mindset helped her see her traits as changeable instead. These days, she manages stress with tools like a worry diary, slow breathing, and mindfulness meditation, taking more control over her thoughts.
  • Neglecting breast self-exams: after discovering a lump but not knowing how long it had been there, she was reminded of the importance of self-checks. Though the lump was benign, it was a bit of a wake-up call, and she now examines monthly, since early detection is key to better outcomes with cancer.

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  • Does Music Really Benefit The Brain?

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    It’s Q&A Day at 10almonds!

    Have a question or a request? We love to hear from you!

    In cases where we’ve already covered something, we might link to what we wrote before, but will always be happy to revisit any of our topics again in the future too—there’s always more to say!

    As ever: if the question/request can be answered briefly, we’ll do it here in our Q&A Thursday edition. If not, we’ll make a main feature of it shortly afterwards!

    So, no question/request too big or small 😎

    ❝Is it actually beneficial for the brain to listen to music, or is it just in line with any relaxing activity? And what kind of music is most beneficial❞

    The short answer, first of all, is that it is indeed beneficial.

    One reason for this without having to get very deep into it, is that a very important thing for general brain health is using it, and that means lighting up all areas of your brain.

    Now, we all lead different lives and thus different parts of our brains will get relatively more resources than others depending on what we do with them, and that’s ok.

    For example, if you were to scan this writer’s polyglot brain, you’d surely find overdevelopment in areas associated with language use and verbal memory, but if you were to scan a taxi-driver’s brain, then it’d be spatial reasoning and spatial memory that’s overpowered, and for a visual artist, it may be visual processing and creativity that’s enhanced. A musician’s brain? Fine motor skills, auditory processing, auditory memory.

    Now, for those of us who aren’t musicians, how then can we light up areas associated with music? By listening to music, of course. It won’t give us the fine motor skills of a concert violinist, but the other areas we mentioned will get a boost.

    See also: How To Engage Your Whole Brain ← this covers music too, but it’s about (as the title suggests) the whole brain, so check it out and see if there are any areas you’ve been neglecting!

    There are other benefits too, though, including engaging our parasympathetic nervous system, which is good for our heart, gut, brain, and general healthespecially if we sing or hum along to the music:

    The Science Of Sounds ← this also covers the science (yes, science) of mantra meditation vs music

    As for “and what kind of music is most beneficial”, we’d hypothesize that a variety is best, just like with food!

    However, there are some considerations to bear in mind, with science to support them. For example…

    About tempo:

    ❝EEG analysis revealed significant changes in brainwave signals across different frequency bands under different tempi.

    For instance, slow tempo induced higher Theta and Alpha power in the frontal region, while fast tempo increased Beta and Gamma band power.

    Moreover, fast tempo enhanced the average connectivity strength in the frontal, temporal, and occipital regions, and increased phase synchrony value (PLV) between the frontal and parietal regions.

    Read in full: Music tempo modulates emotional states as revealed through EEG insights

    And if you’re wondering about those different brainwave bands, check out:

    Additionally, if you just want science-backed relaxation, the following 8-minute soundscape was developed by sound technicians working with a team of psychologists and neurologists.

    It’s been clinically tested, and found to have a much more relaxing effect (in objective measures of lowering heart rate and lowering cortisol levels, as well as in subjective self-reports) than merely “relaxing music”.

    Try it and see for yourself:

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    For much deeper dive into the effect of music on the brain, check out this book we reviewed a while back, by an accomplished musician and neuroscientist (that’s one person, who is both things):

    This Is Your Brain on Music – by Dr. Daniel Levitin

    Enjoy!

    And now for a bonus item…

    As a bit of reader feedback prompted some interesting thoughts:

    ❝You erred on the which is better section. Read this carefully :Looking at minerals, grapes have more calcium, copper, iron, magnesium, phosphorus, selenium, and zinc, while grapes have more potassium and manganese. A clear win for strawberries here.❞

    You’re quite right; thank you for pointing it out, and kindly pardon the typo, which has now been corrected!

    The reason for the mistake was because when I (writer responsible for it here, hi) was writing this, I had the information for both fruits in front of me, but the information for grapes was on the right in my field of vision, so I errantly put it on the right on the page, too, while also accidentally crediting strawberries’ minerals to grapes, since strawberries’ data was on the left in my field a vision.

    The reason for explaining this: it’s a quirky, very human way to err, in an era when a lot of web content is AI-generated with very different kinds of mistakes (usually because AI is very bad at checking sources, so will confidently state something as true despite the fact that the source was The Onion, or Clickhole, or someone’s facetiously joking answer on Quora, for example).

    All in all, while we try to not make typos, we’d rather such human errors than doing like an AI and confidently telling you that Amanita phalloides mushrooms are a rich source of magnesium, and also delicious (they are, reportedly, but they are also the most deadly mushroom on the face of the Earth, also known as the Death Cap mushroom).

    In any case, here’s the corrected version of the grapes vs strawberries showdown:

    Grapes vs Strawberries – Which is Healthier?

    Enjoy!

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  • Getting COMFY – by Jordan Gross

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    It’s easy to see how good “morning people” seem to have it; it’s harder, it seems, to become one.

    And, if we’re forced by circumstance to be the morning person we’re not? We all-too-easily find ourselves greeting each coming day without the joy that, in an ideal world, we might.

    So, is it possible to learn this power? Jordan Gross has it mapped out for it us…

    The “COMFY” of the title is indeed an acronym, and it stands for:

    • Calm
    • Openness
    • Movement
    • Funny
    • You

    There’s a chapter explaining each in detail, and they’re bookended with other chapters explaining more about the whys and the hows.

    As you might expect, the key to a good morning starts the night before, but there’s also a formula to follow. Of course, you can change it up, mix and match if you like… but this book provides a base framework to build from, which is something that can make a huge difference!

    Bottom line: it’s a highly enjoyable book to read, and also provides genuine powerful help to bring us the brighter happier mornings we deserve—the set-up to the perfect day!

    Click here to check out “Getting COMFY” and perk up your mornings—you deserve it!

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  • Artichoke vs Olives – Which is Healthier?

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    Our Verdict

    When comparing artichoke to olives, we picked the artichoke.

    Why?

    Both are great! And the battle of the antipasti…

    In terms of macros, artichoke has 4x the protein and nearly 2x the fiber as well as slightly more carbs, while olives have more (famously healthy) fats. This one really comes down to whether we want to prioritize the fiber or the fats more, so in the interests of fairness, we’re calling this round a tie.

    In the category of vitamins, artichoke has more of vitamins B1, B2, B3, B5, B6, B7, B9, C, and K, while olives have more of vitamins A & E, yielding a 9:2 win to artichokes here.

    Looking at minerals, artichokes have more magnesium, manganese, phosphorus, potassium, and zinc, while olives have more calcium, iron, and selenium, for a more modest 5:3 win for olives in this round.

    In other considerations, they’re both abundant sources of polyphenols, and we’re calling this final round a tie on that basis.

    Adding up the sections makes for an overall win for artichoke, but by all means do enjoy either or both, as diversity is best!

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    Black Olives vs Green Olives – Which is Healthier? ← for some nuance, which doesn’t affect the outcome of today’s choice, but is good to know

    Enjoy!

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  • Tasty Versatile Rice

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    In the nearish future, we’re going to do some incredible rice dishes, but first we need to make sure we’re all on the same page about cooking rice, so here’s a simple recipe first, to get technique down and work in some essentials. We’ll be using wholegrain basmati rice, because it has a low glycemic index, lowest likelihood of heavy metal contamination (a problem for some kinds of rice), and it’s one of the easiest rices to cook well.

    You will need

    • 1 cup wholegrain basmati rice (it may also be called “brown basmati rice“; this is the same)
    • 1 1/2 cups vegetable stock (ideally you have made this yourself from vegetable offcuts that you saved in the freezer, then it will be healthiest and lowest in sodium; failing that, low-sodium vegetable stock cubes can be purchased at most large supermarkets. and then made up at home with hot water)
    • 1 tbsp extra virgin olive oil
    • 1 tbsp chia seeds
    • 1 tbsp black pepper, coarse ground
    • 1 tsp turmeric powder (this small quantity will not change the flavor, but it has important health benefits, and also makes the rice a pleasant golden color)
    • 1 tsp garlic powder
    • 1 tsp yeast extract (this gently improves the savory flavor and also adds vitamin B12)
    • Optional small quantity of green herbs for garnish. Cilantro is good (unless you have the soap gene); parsley never fails.

    This is the ingredients list for a super-basic rice that will go with anything rice will go with; another day we can talk more extensive mixes of herbs and spice blends for different kinds of dishes (and different health benefits!), but for now, let’s get going!

    Method

    (we suggest you read everything at least once before doing anything)

    1) Wash the rice thoroughly. We recommend using a made-for-purpose rice-washing bowl (like this one, for example), but failing that, simply rinse it thoroughly with cold water using a bowl and a sieve. You will probably need to rinse it 4–5 times, but with practice, it will only take a few seconds per rinse, and the water will be coming up clear.

    2) Warm the pan. It doesn’t matter for the moment whether you’re using an electronic rice cooker, a stovetop pressure cooker, electronic pressure cooker, or just a sturdy pan with a heavy lid available, aside from that if it’s something non-stovetop, you now want it to be on low to warm up already.

    3) Separately in a saucepan, bring your stock to a simmer

    4) Put the tbsp of olive oil into the pan (even if you’re confident the rice won’t stick; this isn’t entirely about that) and turn up the heat (if it’s a very simple rice cooker, most at least have a warm/cook differentiation; if so, turn it to “cook”). You don’t want the oil to get to the point of smoking, so, to test the temperature as it heats, flick a single drop of water from your fingertip (you did wash your hands first, right? We haven’t been including that step, but please do wash your hands before doing kitchen things) into the pan. If it sizzles, the pan is hot enough now for the next step.

    5) Put the rice into the pan. That’s right, with no extra liquid yet; we’re going to toast it for a moment. Stir it a little, for no more than a minute; keep it moving; don’t let it burn! If you try this several times and fail, it could be that you need a better pan. Treat yourself to one when you get the opportunity; until then, skip the toasting part if necessary.

    6) Add the chia seeds and spices, followed by the stock, followed by the yeast extract. Why did we do the stock before the yeast extract? It’s because hot liquid will get all the yeast extract off the teaspoon 🙂

    7) Put the lid on/down (per what kind of pan or rice cooker you are using), and turn up the heat (if it is a variable heat source) until a tiny bit of steam starts making its way out. When it does, turn it down to a simmer, and let the rice cook. Don’t stir it, don’t jiggle it; trust the process. If you stir or jiggle it, the rice will cook unevenly and, paradoxically, probably stick.

    8) Do keep an eye on it, because when steam stops coming out, it is done, and needs taking off the heat immediately. If using an automatic rice cooker, you can be less attentive if you like, because it will monitor this for you.

    Note: if you are using a simple pan with a non-fastening lid (any other kind of rice cooking setup is better), more steam will escape than the other methods, and it’s possible that it might run out of steam (literally) before the rice is finished. If the steam stops and you find the rice isn’t done, add a splash of water as necessary (the rice doesn’t need to be submerged, it just needs to have liquid; the steam is part of the cooking process), and make a note of how much you had to add (so that next time you can just add it at the start), and put it back on the heat until it is done.

    9) Having taken it off the heat, let it sit for 5 minutes (with the lid still on) before doing any fluffing-up. Then you can fluff-up and serve, adding the garnish if you want one.

    Enjoy!

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  • Take This Two-Minute Executive Dysfunction Test

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    Roll For Initiative

    Some of us struggle with executive dysfunction a lot; others, a little.

    What Is Executive Dysfunction?

    Executive function is a broad group of mental skills that enable people to complete tasks and interact with others.

    • Executive dysfunction can impair a person’s ability to organize and manage behavior

    • Executive dysfunction is not a specific stand-alone diagnosis or condition.

    • Instead, conditions such as depression and ADHD (amongst others) can affect a person’s executive function.

    Medical News Today

    Take This Two-Minute Executive Dysfunction Test

    How did you score? (8/16 here!)

    Did you do it? (it honestly is really two minutes and is quite informative)

    If not, here’s your cue to go back up and do it

    For almost all of us, we sometimes find ourselves torn between several competing tasks, and end up doing… none of them.

    For such times, compile yourself a “productivity buffet”, print it, and pin it above your desk or similar space.

    What’s a productivity buffet?

    It’s a numbered list of 6, 8, 10, 12 or 20 common tasks that pretty much always need doing (to at least some extent!). Doesn’t matter how important they are, just that they are frequently recurring tasks. For example:

    1. Tidy desk (including that drawer!)
    2. Reply to emails/messages
    3. Drink water
    4. Collect stray one-off to-dos into a list
    5. Stretch (or at least correct your posture!)
    6. Extend that Duolingo streak
    7. Read one chapter of a book
    8. Etc

    Why 6, 8, 10, 12, or 20?

    Because those are common denominations of polyhedral dice that are very cheap to buy!

    Keep the relevant die to hand (perhaps in your pocket or on your desk), and when you know you should be doing something but can’t decide what exactly, roll the die and do the item corresponding to the number you roll.

    And if you find yourself thinking “damn, I got 12, I wanted 7!” then go ahead and do item 7—the dice aren’t the boss of you, they’re just there to break the ice between you and your to-do list!

    The Housekeeper In Your Pocket?

    If you found the tidying tips (up top) helpful, but don’t like cleaning schedules because you just can’t stick to them, this one’s for you.

    It’s easy to slip into just doing the same few easy tasks while neglecting others for far too long.

    The answer? Outsource!

    Not “get a cleaner” (though if you want to and can, great, go for it, this one won’t be for you after all), but rather, try this nifty little app that helps you keep on top of daily cleaning—which we all know is better than binge-cleaning every few months.

    Sweepy keeps track of:

    • What jobs there are that might need doing in each room (or type of room) in the house
    • How often those jobs generally need doing
    • How much of your energy (a finite resource, which it also takes into account!) those jobs will take
    • How much energy you are prepared to spend per day (you can “lighter/heavier” days, or even “off-days”, too)

    …and then it populates a small daily task list according to what needs cleaning and how much energy it’ll take.

    For example, today Sweepy gives me (your trusty writer, hi! ) the tasks:

    • Bathroom: clean sink (every 3 days, 1pt of energy)
    • Dining room: clean and tidy table (every day, 1pt of energy)
    • Bedroom: vacuum floor (every 7 days, 2pts of energy)
    • Kitchen: clean coffee machine (every 30 days, 2pts of energy)

    And that’s my 6pts of energy I’ve told Sweepy I’m happy to spend per day cleaning. There are “3 pts” tasks too—cleaning the oven, for example—but none came up today.

    Importantly: it does not bother me about any other tasks today (even if something’s overdue), and I don’t have to worry my pretty head about it.

    I don’t have to feel guilty for not doing other cleaning tasks; if they need doing, Sweepy will tell me tomorrow, and it will make sure I don’t get behind or leave anything neglected for too long.

    Check it out (available for both iOS and Android)

    PS: to premium or not to premium? We think the premium is worth it (unlocks some extra customization features) but the free version is sufficient to get your house in order, so don’t be afraid to give it a try first.

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  • Samosa Spiced Surprise

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    You know what’s best about samosas? It’s not actually the fried pastry; that’s just what holds it together. If you were to try eating sheets of pastry alone, it would not be much fun. But, the spiced vegetable filling? Now we’re talking! So, this recipe takes what’s best about samosas, and makes them into healthy snack-sized patties.

    You will need

    • Extra virgin olive oil, or coconut oil (per your preference) for cooking
    • 4 medium potatoes, boiled, peeled, and mashed
    • 1 medium onion, diced
    • 1 cup peas
    • 1 carrot, finely chopped
    • ½ cup garbanzo bean flour (chickpea flour, gram flour, whatever your supermarket calls it)
    • ¼ cup fresh cilantro, chopped (substitute parsley if you have the soap gene)
    • ¼ bulb garlic, minced
    • 1 jalapeño pepper, chopped
    • 1 tbsp ground cumin
    • 2 tsp garam masala
    • 1 tsp ground coriander
    • 1 tsp ground turmeric
    • 1 tsp ground black pepper

    Method

    (we suggest you read everything at least once before doing anything)

    1) Fry the onion until it is becoming soft and translucent (3–5 minutes).

    2) Add the spices (the garlic, both kinds of pepper, cumin, coriander, turmeric, and the garam masala), stirring in well

    3) Add the carrot and peas, stirring and cooking until just becoming soft (probably another 3–5 minutes, depending on the heat, how small you chopped the carrot, and whether the peas were frozen or fresh). Take it off the heat.

    4) Mix the potato, chickpea flour, and cilantro in a bowl, and carefully add everything from the pan, mixing that in thoroughly too.

    5) Shape into patties, and fry them on each side until browned and crispy.

    6) Serve as part of a buffet, or perhaps as an appetizer—raita is a fine accompaniment option.

    Enjoy!

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