How To En-Joy Life (With Long-Term Benefits)

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New Year’s Dissolutions?

We have talked previously about:

The Science Of New Year’s Pre-Resolutions

…and here we are now at the end of the first week of January; how’s it going?

Hopefully, based on that article, it’s been going just great since December! For most people, statistically speaking, it hasn’t.

Around now is typically when many people enter the “bargaining” stage of New Year’s Resolutions, which at this point are often in serious danger of becoming New Year’s Dissolutions.

What’s important, really?

When trying to juggle potentially too many new items, it’s important to be able to decide where to focus one’s efforts in the case of needing to drop a ball or two.

First, the laziest way…

The path of least resistance

This is perhaps most people’s go-to. It, without too much thought, drops whatever feels most onerous, and continues with what seems easiest.

This is not a terrible approach, because what we enjoy, we will be more likely to continue. But it can be improved upon, while still getting that benefit.

Marie Kondo your resolutions values

Instead of throwing out the new habits that “don’t spark joy”, ask yourself:

“What brings me joy?”

…because often, the answer is something that’s a result of a thing that didn’t “spark joy” directly. Many things in life involve delayed gratification.

Let’s separate the [unwanted action] from the [wanted result] for a moment.

Rather than struggling on with something unpleasant for the hope of joy at the end of the rainbow, though, give yourself permission to improve the middle bit.

For example, if the idea of having lots of energy and good cardiovascular fitness is what prompted you to commit to those 6am runs each morning (but they’re not actually joyous in your experience), what would be more fun and still give you the same benefit?

Now that you know “having lots of energy and good CV fitness” is what sparks joy, not “getting up to run at 6am”, you can change lanes without pulling off the highway entirely.

Maybe a dance class will be more your speed, for example.

The key here is: you’ll have changed your resolution, without breaking it in any way that mattered

Want more ways to keep on track without burning out?

Who doesn’t? So, check out:

How To Keep On Keeping On… Long Term!

Enjoy!

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    When it comes to risks, we can’t do much about our age and some of the other above factors, but there are other things we can do to reduce our risk, including:

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    • Avoid contagion. While pneumonia itself is not spread person-to-person, it is caused by bacteria or viruses (there are numerous kinds) that are opportunistic and often become a secondary infection when the immune system is already busy with the first one. So, if possible avoid being in confined spaces with many people, and do wash your hands regularly (as a lot of germs are transferred that way and can get into the respiratory tract because you touched your face or such).
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    We need to take care of our health as best we can every day along the way, because we never know when something could change.

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