
The Joy of Saying No – by Natalie Lue
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Superficially, this seems an odd topic for an entire book. “Just say no”, after all, surely! But it’s not so simple as that, is it?
Lue looks into what underpins people-pleasing, first. Then, she breaks it down into five distinct styles of people-pleasing that each come from slightly different motivations and ways of perceiving how we interact with those around us.
Lest this seem overly complicated, those five styles are what she calls: gooding, efforting, avoiding, saving, suffering.
She then looks out how to have a healthier relationship with our yes/no decisions; first by observing, then by creating healthy boundaries. “Healthy” is key here; this isn’t about being a jerk to everyone! Quite the contrary, it involves being honest about what we can and cannot reasonably take on.
The last section is about improving and troubleshooting this process, and constitutes a lot of the greatest value of the book, since this is where people tend to err the most.
Bottom line: this book is informative, clear, and helpful. And far from disappointing everyone with “no”, we can learn to really de-stress our relationships with others—and ourselves.
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A New Contender For “Best Diet For Heart & Brain” In Aging
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We previously wrote about how the Mediterranean diet‘s close cousins DASH and MIND were voted (by a panel of 69 doctors and nutritionists) as best for heart and brain health, respectively.
Here is that article, for reference: Which Diet? Top Diets Ranked By Experts
When we say “close cousins”, in this case we mean that DASH and MIND are variations of the Mediterranean in any case; see: Four Ways To Upgrade The Mediterranean Diet
And for more on the Mediterranean Diet itself, see: The Mediterranean Diet: What Is It Good For? ← More to the point: what isn’t it good for?
- It’s also been found, societally, to reduce general healthcare costs—basically, people get sick less and so have fewer healthcare costs.
- It’s been found to reduce all-cause mortality, which is about the best thing one can say of any diet.
- It’s especially good for heart health and against cancer.
- It’s particularly recommended for the prevention or management of diabetes.
What about best against aging?
We’ve written about eating vs aging, too:
How Much Does A Vegan Diet Affect Biological Aging? ← the answer is, it’s a lot, measurable even over the course of just 8 weeks of vegan eating:
As to the difference it made over the course of the 8 weeks…
❝Various measures of epigenetic age acceleration (PC GrimAge, PC PhenoAge, DunedinPACE) were assessed, along with system-specific effects (Inflammation, Heart, Hormone, Liver, and Metabolic).
Distinct responses were observed, with the vegan cohort exhibiting significant decreases in overall epigenetic age acceleration, aligning with anti-aging effects of plant-based diets. Diet-specific shifts were noted in the analysis of methylation surrogates, demonstrating the influence of diet on complex trait prediction through DNA methylation markers.❞
~ Dr. Varun Dwaraka et al. ← there’s a lot of “et al.” to this one; the paper had 16 collaborating authors!
This is not too surprising, since the Mediterranean diet is mostly plant-based anyway with very little meat and some fermented dairy,
Is there an alternative?
Yes there is! So if you don’t want to put aside all animal products, the diet we’ll talk about now is the one you want.
On the other hand: if you do want to put aside all animal products or are already vegan, then, this diet does not require animal products; it merely permits the inclusion of a few of them.
It’s called the Alternative Healthy Eating Index (AHEI), and (though one could quibble over definitions) it is generally considered to have been launched in 2010.
You may be wondering: if it was launched in 2010, why is it being described as a new contender for “best for heart and brain” in aging?
And the answer is: that is new, in the category of anything we want longitudinal studies for. While some markers of aging can be measured over the duration of a short RCT, as in the vegan study we quoted above, to be able to categorically declare its long-term benefits to organs, we need long-term science, and that takes time.
All so recently, a 15-year longitudinal study has “matured”, as it were, and been published. Specifically, the study followed 2,473 adults aged 60+ for 15 years to examine the effect of dietary patterns on multimorbidity (two or more chronic conditions).
The diets they examined:
- Alternate Mediterranean diet (AMED)
- Mediterranean–DASH Intervention for Neurodegenerative Delay (MIND)
- Alternate Healthy Eating Index (AHEI)
- Empirical Dietary Inflammatory Index (EDII)
What they found, in few words: The AMED, AHEI, and MIND diets were linked to a slower accumulation of chronic diseases, especially cardiovascular and neuropsychiatric conditions, while a pro-inflammatory diet (EDII) was (shocking nobody) associated with faster disease accumulation.
This was “dose dependent”, too, in the sense that those with the highest adherence to MIND and AHEI accumulated about two fewer chronic diseases over 15 years compared to those with the lowest adherence, and AHEI generally showed the most consistent protective associations.
It’s also worth noting that the benefits for cardiovascular disease appeared greatest in women and in participants aged 78+, though the extent to which those benefits showed themselves depended slightly on the statistical modelling method used.
You can read the paper here: Dietary patterns and accelerated multimorbidity in older adults
What’s in the AHEI Diet?
There is a little room for flexibility, and different studies may have slightly different definitions (which we will discuss), there is a clear general theme.
When we discussed the AHEI a few months ago, talking about a 30-year retrospective study (so, looking back on previous data and tallying it against the index that was created after the data was collected), and for that study it was parametered as essentially the Mediterranean diet with three small tweaks:
- no seafood, but long-chain omega-3 fatty acids include to compensate
- no sugar-sweetened beverages or fruit juices
- “no” sodium (in other words, minimal sodium, since almost everything contains trace amounts)
Indeed, they noted:
❝Higher intakes of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, unsaturated fats, nuts, legumes and low-fat dairy products were linked to greater odds of healthy aging, whereas higher intakes of trans fats, sodium, sugary beverages and red or processed meats (or both) were inversely associated.❞
Read in full: Optimal dietary patterns for healthy aging
With this in mind, in this 15-year longitudinal study, they included three additional stipulations, namely:
- little to no butter/cheese, ideally none
- little to no red meat, ideally none
- no processed meats
…which latter may be considered a de facto necessity under the “minimal sodium” directive, but the point is, this time it was spelled out.
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Better Than The Mediterranean? ← this is about what happens if we simply remove the remaining animal products from the Mediterranean Diet.
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Cherries vs Blueberries – Which is Healthier?
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Our Verdict
When comparing cherries to blueberries, we picked the blueberries.
Why?
It was close! And blueberries only won by virtue of taking an average value for cherries; we could have (if you’ll pardon the phrase) cherry-picked tart cherries for extra benefits that’d put them ahead of blueberries. That’s how close it is.
In terms of macros, they are almost identical, so nothing to set them apart there.
In the category of vitamins, they are mostly comparable except that blueberries have a lot more vitamin K, and cherries have a lot more vitamin A. Since vitamin K is the vitamin that’s scarcer in general, we’ll call blueberries’ vitamin K content a win.
Blueberries do also have about 6x more vitamin E, with a cup of blueberries containing about 10% of the daily requirement (and cherries containing almost none). Another small win for blueberries.
When it comes to minerals, they are mostly comparable; the largest point of difference is that blueberries contain more manganese while cherries contain more copper; nothing to decide between them here.
We’re down to counting amino acids and antioxidants now, so blueberries have a lot more cystine and tyrosine. They also have slightly more of amino acids that they both only have trace amounts of. And as for antioxidants? Blueberries contain notably more quercetin.
So, blueberries win the day—but if we had specified tart cherries rather than taking an average, they could have come out on top. Enjoy both!
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A big, convulsive twitch while dozing off? Sleep experts explain the ‘hypnic jerk’
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You’re gently drifting off to sleep when suddenly your arms and legs convulse and you jolt yourself awake. Or, perhaps you’re relaxing in bed when, out of the blue, your dozing partner does an almighty twitch, scaring you half to death.
This is called a hypnic jerk or sleep start. It is often accompanied by a sensation of falling or tripping over.
An estimated 70% of people will experience this at some point.
So, what causes the hypnic jerk? And can certain factors make it more likely to happen?
Photo by cottonbro studio/Pexels A minor misinterpretation
The truth is we don’t know exactly why it happens, but sleep researchers have some theories.
As we transition from wakefulness to sleep, the nervous system winds down and muscles relax.
Sometimes, the brain misreads this relaxation as a sensation of falling or tripping. The brain sends a quick but powerful signal to the body. The hypnic jerk is the result.
Hypnic jerks usually affect one side of the body and are painless. Some people, however, may experience a tingling or painful sensation.
For most people, hypnic jerks are not associated with any health or other sleep problems. When hypnic jerks occur frequently over prolonged period, however, people may come to anxiously anticipate them. This can lead to insomnia.
Are they linked to certain health conditions or medications?
Some research has shown hypnic jerks can be more common among people with certain conditions, such as Parkinson’s disease. One 2016 study suggests hypnic jerks may be a symptom that can occur in the early stages of Parkinson’s disease.
However, it’s very unlikely they would happen in the absence of other common symptoms, such as changes to movement and mobility or REM sleep behaviour disorder (where people start acting out dreams). These are much more reliable potential indicators of Parkinson’s disease.
Frequent hypnic jerks that disrupt sleep can be a side effect of some prescription medications, particularly antidepressants such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs). This includes medications such as escitalopram, sertraline and fluoxetine.
Although considered a rare side effect and the exact cause is still unknown, researchers have reported various cases in which people using these medications experience hypnic jerks, often resolving quickly after stopping the medication.
If you’re on these medications, experiencing hypnic jerks and feel worried about it, chat to your prescribing doctor.
Other medications that contain caffeine, and non-prescribed substances that have stimulating effects, such as cocaine, have also been linked with hypnic jerks.
Good sleep hygiene
Hypnic jerks are normal and generally no cause for concern.
However, certain lifestyle factors can make them more likely. These include:
- sleep deprivation
- stress and anxiety
- excessive intake of stimulants, such as nicotine or caffeinated drinks
- strenuous exercise before bed.
Keeping these factors under control is all part of good sleep hygiene anyway – whether or not you’re worried by hypnic jerks.
Yaqoot Fatima, Professor of Sleep Health, University of the Sunshine Coast; Alexandra Metse, Senior Lecturer, Psychology, University of the Sunshine Coast, and Daniel Sullivan, Lecturer in Clinical Psychology, Griffith University
This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.
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Pineapple vs Strawberries – Which is Healthier?
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Our Verdict
When comparing pineapple to strawberries, we picked the pineapple.
Why?
It was close, and both have their strong merits!
In terms of macros, pineapple has more carbs (while still having a low glycemic index), and they’re about equal on everything else, making pineapple the “more food per food” option here. So we could call this a small first-round win for pineapple.
In the category of vitamins, pineapple has more of vitamins A, B1, B2, B3, B5, B6, and B7, while strawberries have more of vitamins E and K, yielding a 7:2 win to pineapple here.
Looking at minerals, pineapple has more copper and manganese, while strawberries have more phosphorus and selenium, for a 2:2 tie in this round.
In other considerations, pineapple has bromelain, which is unique to it and has many beneficial properties (see the “learn more” section below), while strawberries (like most berries) have a lot more polyphenols. So, we’re calling this round a tie.
Adding up the sections makes for an overall win for pineapple, but strawberries are great too, so by all means enjoy either or both, as diversity is best!
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7 Days Of Celery Juice: What’s The Verdict?
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Laura “Try” tries many popular trends, and reports on the benefits (or problems, or both). In this case, it’s 7 days of celery juice… Not as a fast, though, i.e. she doesn’t just have celery juice for 7 days, but rather, it’s how she kicks off each morning, with half a liter (16oz) on an empty stomach.
What she found
First, she bought a masticating juicer and organic celery. So, those are expenses to consider, especially the one-off expense of the juicer, and the ongoing expense of organic celery—estimated $90/month).
In terms of taste, she was surprised it wasn’t as bitter as expected, but from the second day onwards, she did use the juicer’s filter to remove the frothy sludge, and she also switched to juicing only the stalks, not the leaves—which are more bitter.
10almonds note: the leaves are more bitter because that’s where the polyphenols are more densely concentrated. The leaves are better for you than the stalks. Enjoy the leaves. Really: if you chop them finely you can use them as herbs in your cooking, and if you’re making a salad, just chop them into that too.
The reason she picked the quantity of half a liter is because this is what she found recommended to coat the stomach lining—on the promise of increased stomach acid production, reduced bacteria overgrowth, as well as antiviral, antifungal, and anti-inflammatory properties. As she’s just one woman without a personal lab, she couldn’t test and thus verify any of these though—but she did still have benefits to report:
She did experience clearer skin, more energy, and better sleep after a few days.
Ultimately, she decided to continue to do it just at the weekends, due to its positive effects, despite the cost and time consumption.
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Sea Salt vs MSG – Which is Healthier?
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Our Verdict
When comparing sea salt to MSG, we picked the MSG.
Why?
Surprise! Or maybe not? The results of the poll for this one should be interesting, and will help us know whether we need to keep mentioning in every second recipe that MSG is a healthier alternative to salt.
First of all, two things:
- Don’t be fooled by their respective names, and/or with such, an appeal to naturalism. For example, hydroxybenzoic acids are a major group of beneficial phenolic compounds, whereas hemlock is a wildflower that grows in this writer’s garden and will kill you if you eat it. Actually hydroxybenzoic acids also grow here (on the apple tree), but that’s not the point. The point is: worry less about names, and more about evidence!
- Don’t be fooled by the packaging. A lot of products go for “greenwashing” of one kind or another. You’re not eating the packaging (hopefully), so don’t be swayed by a graphic designer’s implementation of a marketing team’s aesthetic choices.
If naturalism is for some reason very important to you though, do bear in mind that glutamates occur generously in many common foodstuffs (tomatoes are a fine, healthy example) and eating tomato in the presence of salt will have the same biochemical effect as eating MSG, because it’s the same chemicals.
Since there are bad rumors about MSG’s safety, especially in the US where there is often a strong distrust of anything associated with China (actually MSG was first isolated in Japan, more than 100 years ago, by Japanese biochemist Dr. Kikunae Ikeda, but that gets drowned out by the “Chinese Restaurant Syndrome” fear in the US), know that this has resulted in MSG being one of the most-studied food additives in the last 40 years or so, with many teams of scientists trying to determine its risks and not finding any (aside from the same that could be said of any substance; anything in sufficient excess will kill you, including water or oxygen).
Well, that’s all been about safety, but what makes it healthier than sea salt?
Simply, it has about ⅓ of the sodium content, that’s all. So, if you are laboring all day in a field under the hot summer sun, then probably the sea salt will be healthier, to replenish more of the sodium you lost through sweat. But for most people most of the time, having less sodium rather than more is the healthier option.
Want to learn more?
You might like to read:
- Monosodium Glutamate: Sinless Flavor-Enhancer Or Terrible Health Risk?
- MSG vs. Salt: Sodium Comparison ← here be chemistry
- More Salt, Not Less? ← No
- Pink Himalayan Salt: Health Facts
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