When we are in a despairing mood, that’s when it can feel hardest to actually implement anything we know about getting out of one. That’s why sometimes, the simplest solutions are the best:

Imagination Is Key

Despairing moods occur when it’s hard to envision a better life. Imagination is the power to envision alternatives, such as new jobs, relationships, or lifestyle, but sadness can cloud our ability to imagine solutions like changing careers, moving house, or starting fresh. With enough imagination, most problems can be worked around—and new opportunities can always be found.

Importantly: we are not bound by our past or present circumstances; we have the freedom and flexibility to choose new paths. That doesn’t mean it’ll always be a walk in the park, but “this too shall pass”.

You may be thinking: “sometimes the hardship does pass, but can last many years”, and that is true. All the more reason to check if there’s a freer lane you can slip into to speed ahead. Even if there isn’t, the mere act of imagining such lanes is already respite from the hardships—and having envisioned such will make it much easier for you to recognise when opportunities for change do come along.

To foster imagination, we are advised to expose ourselves to different narratives, preparing ourselves for alternative ways of living. Thus, we can reframe life’s challenges as intellectual puzzles, urging us to rebuild creatively and find new solutions!

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This video is unusually good, because it very clearly shows (and explains) some important biomechanical differences that a lot of people miss (resulting, for them, in making things worse rather than better):

Working the right muscles

Crunches are ineffective for flattening the stomach and can worsen posture by shortening abs and pulling the pelvis forward. So, what to do instead?

Before continuing, let’s just mention that nutrition is crucial—no workout will help if your gut is inflamed or diet is poor. But this video is about exercise technique, so let’s press on to that.

The transverse abdominis (TVA) is your natural core stabilizer, keeping your organs in place and holding you upright. If it’s weak, your gut will sink down and outwards, no matter how many crunches you did (which usually train only the rectus abdominis). You can check on the current state of your TVA by doing the “string test”; tie a string around your waist, and then bend to pick something up. If it tightens when lifting something, your TVA isn’t activating. The goal is for the string to loosen as you bend.

With that in mind, here’s how to train the TVA:

Stomach vacuums:

• Breathe deeply in tabletop position.
• Exhale slowly through pursed lips with your tongue on the roof of your mouth.
• Draw your belly button toward your spine (without sucking in).
• Do 3 sets of 10 reps.

Pelvic tilt activation:

• Lie on your back, knees bent, hand under your lower back.
• Tilt your pelvis so that your back presses into your hand. Hold 10 secs, repeat 10 times.

Range of motion test:

• Lift your legs while maintaining back contact with the floor.
• Find your TVA-controlled range. If your back lifts, reduce the range.
• Do 3 sets of 10 reps.

Stabilization training:

• Bird-dog (horse stack): alternate extending each opposite arm and leg, in the tabletop position. Hold 10–20 seconds per side.
• Swiss ball/rings plank: train your stabilizing muscles by maintaining your posture on unstable surface. Hold 10–30 seconds with good control.

Swiss ball crunches:

• Full spinal extension over the ball.
• Crunch up and squeeze your abs.
• Do 2 sets of 10 reps.

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