Tricks For Daily Life: The Art of Being Unflappable

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From Stoicism to CBT, thinkers through the ages have sought the unflappable life.

Today, in true 10almonds fashion, we’re going to distil it down to some concentrated essentials that we can all apply in our daily lives:

The Trickiest & Most Common/Impactful Cognitive Distortions To Catch (And Thus Avoid)

These are like the rhetorical fallacies with which you might be familiar (ad hominem, no true Scotsman, begging the question, tu quoque, straw man, etc), but are about what goes on between your own ears, pertaining to your own life.

If we learn about them and how to recognize them, however, we can catch them before they sabotage us, and remain “unflappable” in situations that could otherwise turn disastrous.

Let’s take a look at a few:

Catastrophizing / Crystal Ball

  • Distortion: not just blowing something out of proportion, but taking an idea and running with it to its worst possible conclusion. For example, we cook one meal that’s a “miss” and conclude we are a terrible cook, and in fact for this reason a terrible housewife/mother/friend/etc, and for this reason everyone will probably abandon us and would be right to do so
  • Reality: by tomorrow, you’ll probably be the only one who even remembers it happened

Mind Reading

  • Distortion: attributing motivations that may or may not be there, and making assumptions about other people’s thoughts/feelings. An example is the joke about two partners’ diary entries; one is long and full of feelings about how the other is surely dissatisfied in their marriage, has been acting “off” with them all day, is closed and distant, probably wants to divorce, may be having an affair and is wondering which way to jump, and/or is just wondering how to break the news—the other partner’s diary entry is short, and reads “motorcycle won’t start; can’t figure out why”
  • Reality: sometimes, asking open questions is better than guessing, and much better than assuming!

All-or-Nothing Thinking / Disqualifying the Positive / Magnifying the Negative

  • Distortion: having a negative bias that not only finds a cloud in every silver lining, but stretches it out so that it’s all that we can see. In a relationship, this might mean that one argument makes us feel like our relationship is nothing but strife. In life in general, it may lead us to feel like we are “naturally unlucky”.
  • Reality: those negative things wouldn’t even register as negative to us if there weren’t a commensurate positive we’ve experienced to hold them in contrast against. So, find and remember that positive too.

For brevity, we put a spotlight on (and in some cases, clumped together) the ones we think have the most bang-for-buck to know about, but there are many more.

So for the curious, here’s some further reading:

Psychology Today: 50 Common Cognitive Distortions

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  • 5 Tools To Reduce Stress

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    Dr. Ruth Machin advises:

    Five things to do

    Starting with the innermost part, and progressing to the outermost part:

    • Journaling: writing regularly—whether full sentences or just a few words—can help express emotions, clear your head, and improve happiness and memory. Use prompts like “What went well today?” and try to journal at the same time each day, especially in the evening to sleep more restfully.
    • Slow breathing: activating the parasympathetic nervous system (the “rest and digest” mode) through slow breathing can help calm your stress response. Just a few minutes a day can make a difference.
    • Gentle movement: light, intentional movement like walking in nature, stretching, yoga, or even pottering around the garden helps bring you back into your body and reduces stress without needing to be a workout.
    • Digital switch-off cues: instead of abrupt screen cut-offs, create a routine cue to signal the end of screen time—like putting your phone in a drawer—to help your brain wind down.
    • Social connection: prioritize meaningful (and ideally, in-person) interactions with people who “get” you. Strong social ties improve well-being and even extend life expectancy, while poor connection increases heart disease risk. Schedule it like any important commitment.

    For more on all of these, enjoy:

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  • Top 5 Anti-Aging Exercises

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    There are some exercises that get called such things as “The King of Exercises!”, but how well-earned is that title and could it be that actually a mix of the top few is best?

    The Exercises

    While you don’t have to do all 5, your body will thank you if you are able to:

    • Plank: strengthens most of the body, and can reduce back pain while improving posture.
    • Squats: another core-strengthening exercise, this time with an emphasis on the lower body, which makes for strong foundations (including strong ankles, knees, and hips). Improves circulation also, and what’s good for circulation is good for the organs, including the brain!
    • Push-ups: promotes very functional strength and fitness; great for alternating with planks, as despite their similar appearance, they work the abs and back more, respectively.
    • Lunges: these are great for lower body strength and stability, and doing these greatly reduces the risk of falling.
    • Glute Bridges: this nicely rounds off one’s core strength, increasing stability and improving posture, as well as reducing lower back pain too.

    If the benefits of these seem to overlap a little, it’s because they do! But each does some things that the others don’t, so put together, they make for a very well-balanced workout.

    For advice on how to do each of them, plus more about the muscles being used and the benefits, enjoy:

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  • Taking a drug like Ozempic? What you need to know about risks of suicidal thoughts and contraception failure

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    The rise of GLP-1 drugs such as Ozempic and Mounjaro has been nothing short of meteoric. Originally developed to treat diabetes, these drugs are now widely used for weight loss and have become household names.

    But alongside headlines of dramatic transformations are reports of an increased risk of suicidal thoughts and unwanted pregnancies after contraception failures.

    So what are the risks? And what should you do if you are taking these medicines?

    How do these drugs work?

    Glucagon-like peptide-1 (GLP-1) drugs are medicines used to treat type-2 diabetes and obesity. They work by reducing blood sugar levels and reducing appetite.

    Five medicines in this category are approved for use in Australia:

    • Mounjaro (tirzepatide)
    • Ozempic (semaglutide)
    • Wegovy (semaglutide)
    • Saxenda (liraglutide)
    • Trulicity (dulaglutide).

    These drugs have been around for the past decade but rose in popularity in recent years, with the help of Hollywood celebrities.

    The most common side effects of GLP-1 medicines are related to digestion: nausea, vomiting, diarrhoea, indigestion, stomach pain and constipation. These tend to be mild and either go away with time or become more tolerable.

    But more concerning side effects have prompted Australia’s Therapeutic Goods Administration (TGA) to issue new warnings this week about suicidal thoughts and the lower effectiveness of oral contraceptives.

    Risk of suicidal thoughts and behaviour

    In the 12 months to November 2025, there were 20 cases of suicidal thoughts reported in the Australian Database of Adverse Events Notifications which coincided with the use of a GLP-1 medicine.

    This is consistent with published scientific data. A 2024 study found a link between GLP-1 medicines and a 106% increase in the risk of suicidal behaviour.

    An analysis of World Health Organization data also found a link between semaglutide use and suicidal thoughts.

    But not all the evidence supports a link between GLP-1 drugs and suicidal thoughts.

    A separate 2024 sudy analysed the data of more than 1.8 million patients who were taking the medicines for either weight loss or diabetes. It found a lower, not higher, risk of new or recurring suicidal thoughts when compared with patients who were not taking a GLP-1 medicine.

    How can these drugs affect contraception?

    Oral contraceptives work by using hormones to prevent the releases of eggs from the ovaries and to thicken the cervical mucus. This latter effect makes it difficult for sperm to reach and fertilise an egg.

    These effects are only triggered when pregnancy-related hormones are at a high enough level. If GLP-1 medicines affect how the body absorbs hormones in oral contraceptives, hormone levels may not reach concentrations high enough to prevent pregnancy.

    Researchers first raised the potential for GLP-1 medicines to affect oral contraceptives in 2003.

    The ability for GLP-1 medicines to affect oral contraceptives may vary between drugs. A review that examined the link between tirzepatide and oral contraception found that this specific drug had a higher impact on hormone absorption when compared with other GLP-1 drugs.

    A study of semagutide published in 2015 found the drug did not affect the amount of hormone that was absorbed into the body when patients were given the commonly used oral contraceptive pills ethinylestradiol or levonorgestrel.

    But a more recent study in 2025 concluded that both tirzepatide and oral semaglutide were able to affect oral contraceptive hormone levels.

    GLP-1 drugs should not affect the efficacy of IUDs or other long-acting (implanted) contraceptives as they are not reliant on hormones being absorbed from the stomach.

    I’m taking one of these drugs, what should I do?

    The TGA recommends that if you’re taking GLP-1 medicines, you should tell your doctor if you experience new or worsening depression, suicidal thoughts, or any unusual changes in mood or behaviour.

    For women taking the GLP-1 drug tirzepatide and oral contraceptives, the TGA advises either switching to a non-oral contraceptive (like an implant), or adding a barrier method of contraception for four weeks after first taking the GLP-1 medicine, or any time you increase the dose of tirzepatide.

    A GLP-1 drug should not be used during pregnancy, as it may affect fetal growth. The adverse events database has also reported cases of miscarriages in women who were at the time taking semaglutide or tirzepatide.

    If this article has raised issues for you, or if you’re concerned about someone you know, call Lifeline on 13 11 14 or the Suicide Call Back Service on 1300 659 467

    Nial Wheate, Professor, School of Natural Sciences, Macquarie University

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  • Older adults need another COVID-19 vaccine

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    What you need to know 

    • The CDC recommends people 65 and older and immunocompromised people receive an additional dose of the updated COVID-19 vaccine this spring—if at least four months have passed since they received a COVID-19 vaccine.
    • Updated COVID-19 vaccines are effective at protecting against severe illness, hospitalization, death, and long COVID.
    • The CDC also shortened the isolation period for people who are sick with COVID-19.

    Last week, the CDC said people 65 and older should receive an additional dose of the updated COVID-19 vaccine this spring. The recommendation also applies to immunocompromised people, who were already eligible for an additional dose.

    Older adults made up two-thirds of COVID-19-related hospitalizations between October 2023 and January 2024, so enhancing protection for this group is critical.

    The CDC also shortened the isolation period for people who are sick with COVID-19, although the contagiousness of COVID-19 has not changed.

    Read on to learn more about the CDC’s updated vaccination and isolation recommendations.

    Who is eligible for another COVID-19 vaccine this spring?

    The CDC recommends that people ages 65 and older and immunocompromised people receive an additional dose of the updated COVID-19 vaccine this spring—if at least four months have passed since they received a COVID-19 vaccine. It’s safe to receive an updated COVID-19 vaccine from Pfizer, Moderna, or Novavax, regardless of which COVID-19 vaccines you received in the past.

    Updated COVID-19 vaccines are available at pharmacies, local clinics, or doctor’s offices. Visit Vaccines.gov to find an appointment near you.

    Under- and uninsured adults can get the updated COVID-19 vaccine for free through the CDC’s Bridge Access Program. If you’re over 60 and unable to leave your home, call the Aging Network at 1-800-677-1116 to learn about free at-home vaccination options.

    What are the benefits of staying up to date on COVID-19 vaccines?

    Staying up to date on COVID-19 vaccines prevents severe illness, hospitalization, death, and long COVID.

    Additionally, the CDC says staying up to date on COVID-19 vaccines is a safer and more reliable way to build protection against COVID-19 than getting sick from COVID-19.

    What are the new COVID-19 isolation guidelines?

    According to the CDC’s general respiratory virus guidance, people who are sick with COVID-19 or another common respiratory illness, like the flu or RSV, should isolate until they’ve been fever-free for at least 24 hours without the use of fever-reducing medication and their symptoms improve.

    After that, the CDC recommends taking additional precautions for the next five days: wearing a well-fitting mask, limiting close contact with others, and improving ventilation in your home if you live with others. 

    If you’re sick with COVID-19, you can infect others for five to 12 days, or longer. Moderately or severely immunocompromised patients may remain infectious beyond 20 days.

    For more information, talk to your health care provider.

    This article first appeared on Public Good News and is republished here under a Creative Commons license.

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  • Natural Remedies and Foods for Osteoarthritis

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    In cases where we’ve already covered something, we might link to what we wrote before, but will always be happy to revisit any of our topics again in the future too—there’s always more to say!

    As ever: if the question/request can be answered briefly, we’ll do it here in our Q&A Thursday edition. If not, we’ll make a main feature of it shortly afterwards!

    So, no question/request too big or small

    ❝Natural solutions for osteoarthritis. Eg. Rosehip tea, dandelion root tea. Any others??? What foods should I absolutely leave alone?❞

    We’ll do a main feature on arthritis (in both its main forms) someday soon, but meanwhile, we recommend eating for good bone/joint health and against inflammation. To that end, you might like these main features we did on those topics:

    Of these, probably the last one is the most critical, and also will have the speediest effects if implemented.

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  • Ice baths are booming in popularity – but they come with health risks

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    Walk through any trendy suburb and you might find a new “wellness” studio offering ice baths or “contrast therapy” (a sauna and ice bath combo).

    Scroll social media, and you’re likely to come across influencers preaching the cold plunge gospel with cult-like zeal.

    Ice baths have gone mainstream. Initially practised mainly among high-performance athletes, cold water immersion is now a booming business model: sold as recovery, discipline and therapy all in one.

    But the benefits are questionable and, importantly, ice baths can have health risks – particularly for people who have limited experience using them.

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    From Roman times to today

    Cold water immersion isn’t a new concept.

    The “frigidarium” – a room with a cold plunge pool or bath – was a feature in most Roman bathhouses.

    For decades, athletes have used cold water immersion, such as swims in cold water, for recovery.

    But in recent years, with the proliferation of commercial cold plunge centres, there’s been an explosion in people using ice baths recreationally.

    Many people are even setting up their own ice baths at home. The global cold plunge tub market was valued at close to US$338 million in 2024 and is projected to reach nearly $483 million by 2033.

    Social media shows serene influencers meditating through the pain, claiming it boosts mental health, serotonin, testosterone, and their metabolism. But does the evidence stack up?

    Ice baths can reduce muscle soreness after intense training, however the effect is modest and short-lived.

    Some research shows cold water immersion can improve mood after a single exposure in young, healthy people, but other research doesn’t find these benefits.

    Most claims about mental health, testosterone and weight loss aren’t backed by strong evidence. Rather, they’re anecdotal and amplified by influencers.

    What does an ice bath involve?

    At commercial establishments, patrons can often use the ice baths as they please during a booked session. Ice bath temperatures often range anywhere from 3°C to 15°C. There normally isn’t actual ice in the bath, but some people add blocks of ice to their ice baths at home.

    Businesses offering ice baths don’t always actively supervise patrons or monitor a person’s time in the ice bath. They may leave their customers to self-regulate, assuming people will know to get out of the water before they pass their body’s limits.

    So what are the risks?

    Cold water immersion triggers a powerful physiological response. When you hit cold water below 15°C, your body launches into cold shock. Gasping occurs and breathing becomes rapid and uncontrollable. Heart rate spikes. Blood pressure rises.

    Staying in the water for too long can lead to hypothermia, a condition where a person’s core body temperature drops dangerously low.

    Shivering may begin within minutes in cold water. Confusion or fainting are more serious signs that hypothermia may be developing.

    Occasionally, this “cold shock” response can lead to a heart attack or stroke – especially if you have an undiagnosed condition affecting your heart, blood vessels or brain.

    As far back as 1969, researchers found even experienced swimmers could struggle after just a few minutes in cold water. Participants were immersed in water at 4.7°C while fully clothed and asked to swim as if trying to reach safety. Some developed serious respiratory distress and had to stop swimming within as little as 90 seconds, well before any measurable drop in core body temperature.

    Even after you get out, your core temperature can continue to fall – a phenomenon known as afterdrop. So you can encounter problems, such as collapse, even after leaving the water.

    And even young, healthy people can be caught off guard. The body isn’t designed to endure freezing water for extended periods.

    Recently one of us (Sam Cornell) had to provide first aid at an ice bath venue in Sydney. A young man collapsed after staying in an ice bath for ten minutes. He was shivering uncontrollably and clearly suffering from cold shock.

    Cold exposure can also cause long-term damage to nerves and blood vessels in the hands and feet, known as non-freezing cold injury. This is more likely if someone spends an extended period immersed in cold water. Symptoms such as numbness, pain and sensitivity to cold can persist for years.

    6 tips for safer recreational ice bath use

    The ice bath trend is part of a broader wellness movement, promoted to young men in particular, where discomfort is repackaged as discipline. Push through the pain. Master your body. If you feel terrible, you must be doing it right.

    But behind the hype lies a less appealing truth. Ice baths can be dangerous.

    We advise caution, but if you do choose to try an ice bath, treat it seriously and follow these tips to reduce the risk of harm.

    1. Talk to your doctor: get checked out first. If you or your family have any heart, stroke or respiratory risk, skip it

    2. Know your limits: being fit doesn’t protect you from cold shock

    3. Start gradually: begin with short warm to cold showers before full immersion

    4. Never go alone: always have someone with you, especially if you’re new to ice baths

    5. Keep it short and watch the temperature: limit sessions to 3–5 minutes and remember, problems can still occur after you get out

    6. Recognise the signs of danger: symptoms such as shivering, numbness and confusion can all seem like part of the experience to someone bent on pushing themselves. But these can be signs of hypothermia.

    Samuel Cornell, PhD Candidate in Public Health & Community Medicine, School of Population Health, UNSW Sydney and Michael Tipton, Professor of Human and Applied Physiology, University of Portsmouth

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