Get Better Sleep: Beyond The Basics

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First though, for the sake of being methodical, letโ€™s quickly note the basics:

  • Aim for 7โ€“9 hours per night
  • Set a regular bedtime and (equally important!) regular getting-up time
  • Have a 2-hour wind-down period before bed, to decompress from any stresses of the day
  • Minimal device/screen usage before bed
  • Abstain from stimulants for as long before bed as reasonably possible (caffeine elimination halflife is 4โ€“8 hours depending on your genes, call it 6 hours average to eliminate half (not the whole lot), and youโ€™ll see itโ€™s probably best to put a cap on it earlier rather than later).
  • Abstain from alcohol, ideally entirely, but allow at least 1hr/unit before bed. So for example, 1hr for a 1oz single shot of spirits, or 2โ€“3 hours for a glass of wine (depending on size), or 3โ€“4 hours for a martini (depending on recipe). Not that that is not the elimination time, nor even the elimination halflife of alcohol, itโ€™s just a โ€œgive your body a chance at leastโ€ calculation. If you like to have a drink to relax before bed, then well, only you can decide what you like more: that or actually getting restorative sleep.
  • Consider a warm bath/shower before bed, if that suits your schedule.
  • Wash and change your bedsheets more often than seems necessary. Or if thatโ€™s too onerous, at least change the pillowcases more often, which makes quite a difference already.
  • Lower the temperature of your bedroom shortly before bedtime; this will help cue the body to produce melatonin
  • Make your bedroom as dark as reasonably possible. Invest in blackout blinds/curtains, and remove any pesky electronics, or at least cover their little LEDs if itโ€™s something that reasonably needs to remain on.

Ok, now, onwardsโ€ฆ

Those 7โ€“9 hours? Yes, it goes for you too.

A lot of people mistake getting 6 hours sleep per night for only needing 6 hours sleep per night. Sure, you may still be alive after regularly getting 6 hours, but (unless you have a rare mutation of the ADRB1 gene) it will be causing harm, and yes, that includes later in life; we donโ€™t stop needing so much sleep, even stop getting it:

Why You Probably Need More Sleep

With this in mind, it becomes important toโ€ฆ

Prioritize your sleepโ€”which means planning for it!

When does your bedtime routine start? According to sleep scientist Dr. Lisa Matricciani, it starts before breakfast. This is because the things we do earlier in the day can greatly affect the amount (and quality) of sleep we get later. For example, a morning moderate-to-intense exercise session greatly improves sleep at night:

Planning Ahead For Better Sleep

As for quality, that is as important as quantity, and itโ€™s not just about โ€œsoundnessโ€ of sleep:

The 6 Dimensions Of Sleep (And Why They Matter)

โ€œWhat gets measured, gets doneโ€ goes for sleep too

Sleep-deprived people usually underestimate how sleep-deprived they are. This is for the same reason as why drunk people usually underestimate how drunk they areโ€”to put it in words that go for both situations: a cognitively impaired person lacks the cognitive function to realize how cognitively impaired they are.

Hereโ€™s the science on that, by the way:

How Sleep-Deprived Are You, Really?

For that reason, we recommend using sleep-tracking software (there are many apps for that) on your phone or, ideally, a wearable device (such as a smartwatch or similar).

A benefit of doing so is that we donโ€™t think โ€œwell, I slept from 10pm to 6am, so thatโ€™s 8 hoursโ€, if our device tells us we slept between 10:43pm and 5:56 am with 74% sleep efficiency because we woke up many times.

As an aside, sleep efficiency should be about 85%, by the way. Why not 100%, you ask? Itโ€™s because if your body is truly out like a light for the entire night, something is wrong (either you were very sleep-deprived, or you have been drugged, that kind of thing). See also:

An unbroken nightโ€™s sleep is a myth. Hereโ€™s what good sleep looks like.

So waking up during the night is normal, and nothing to worry about per se. If you do find trouble getting back to sleep, though:

How to Fall Back Asleep After Waking Up in the Middle of the Night

Be careful about how you try to supplement sleep

This goes both for taking substances of various kinds, and napping. Some sleep aids can help, but many are harmful and/or do not really work as such; hereโ€™s a rundown of examples of those:

Safe Effective Sleep Aids For Seniors?

And when it comes to napping, timing is everything:

How To Nap Like A Pro (No More โ€œSleep Hangoversโ€!)

Want to know a lot more?

This is the book on sleep:

Why We Sleep โ€“ by Dr. Matthew Walker

Enjoy!

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  • Lychee vs Pear โ€“ Which is Healthier?

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    Our Verdict

    When comparing lychees to pears, we picked the lychees.

    Why?

    Both have their strong points:

    In terms of macros, the only meaningful difference is that pears have nearly 3x the fiberโ€”other macros have only negligible differences (i.e. within the margin of variation, so it’d depend on the individual plant you got it from), so this is a clear deciding factor here is the fiber, and it’s clearly in pears’ favor.

    In the category of vitamins, lychees have more of vitamins B2, B3, B6, B7, B9, C, and choline, while pears have more of vitamins A, E, and K. Notably, lychees are an especially good source of vitamin C, with 1 cup providing 1.5x the daily requirement. In any case, lychees are also the winner here by strength of numbers in total.

    When it comes to minerals, lychees have more copper, iron, magnesium, manganese, phosphorus, potassium, and selenium, while pears have more calcium and zinc. Another win for lychees!

    Adding up the sections makes for an overall win for lychees, but pears are great too, especially for fiber, so do by all means enjoy either or both; diversity is good!

    Want to learn more?

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    Whatโ€™s Your Plant Diversity Score?

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  • Cardio and strength training boost health as you age. But donโ€™t forget balance exercises to reduce your chance ofย falls

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    We all recognise the benefits of regular aerobic or cardiovascular exercise to support our heart and lung health. Being active is also good for our social and mental health. And strength training promotes strong bones and muscles.

    But as we age, we also need to train our balance to avoid falls.

    Around one in three people aged 65 and over have a fall each year.

    Falls are a common cause of disability and loss of independence in older age and can lead to an older person moving from living independently into living in a residential aged care facility. More than 6,000 older Australians die each year from falls.

    But many falls are preventable. So exercise that targets balance and strength is crucial.

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    How much do we need to do?

    International guidelines recommend all older people exercise to prevent falls, even if theyโ€™ve never fallen. Prevention is far better than cure.

    Other guidelines recommend people aged 65 and over do โ€œfunctional balance and strength trainingโ€ on three or more days a week, to improve their ability to do day-to-day activities, stay independent, and prevent falls.

    Since balance starts to decline at around age 50, itโ€™s even better to start training balance before the age of 65.

    In order to increase our muscle strength, we need to progressively lift heavier weights. Similarly, to boost our balance, we need to practise activities that progressively challenge it. This improves our ability to stay steady in difficult situations and avoid falling.

    Functional training means doing a physical activity that imitates everyday activities, such as standing up out of a chair, or stepping onto a step.

    When you practise the everyday activities necessary for living independently, you improve your ability to perform them. This reduces the likelihood of falling when doing those activities, and therefore helps you maintain your independence for longer.

    What exercises can you do?

    The best exercises to challenge our balance system and reduce the risk of falling are performed while standing, rather than seated.

    For example, you can stand with your feet close together or on one leg (if itโ€™s safe to do so) while also performing controlled upper-body movements, such as leaning and reaching. This is a functional balance exercise and it can be made progressively more challenging as your balance improves.

    Here are some exercises you can practise at home:

    Sit to stand

    Practise standing up from a seated position ten times every hour or so. See if you can do it without using your arms for support. To increase the balance challenge, place a cushion under the feet.

    Heel-raises

    Rise up onto your toes and hold the position for a few seconds. Hold on to a bench or wall for support if you need to but gradually remove the support as your balance improves. To increase the balance challenge, try doing this with your eyes closed.

    Person does heel-raises on spiky balls
    You can make heel-raises progressively harder. Mary Rice/Shutterstock

    Heel-toe walking

    Practise walking along an imaginary line, with one foot placed in front of the other. Hold on to a bench or wall for support if you need to but gradually remove the support as your balance improves.

    Stepping in different directions

    Practise quickly stepping forwards, sideways and backwards. Being able to move our feet quickly can help avoid a fall if you trip on something. If you are able, more challenging activities include stepping up or jumping onto a box.

    Squats and lunges

    Squats and lunges improve balance and leg strength. Add some hand weights to increase the challenge.

    Older exercisers squat
    Squats improve balance and leg strength. LightField Studios/Shutterstock

    These examples and others can be found on the Safe Exercise at Home website.

    Make it regular โ€“ and tailor it to your needs

    Itโ€™s important that balance challenging exercises are performed regularly, at least three times per week. The benefits of exercise are lost if you stop doing them, so ongoing practice is important.

    People of all abilities can safely undertake balance training exercise, however extra guidance and support is recommended for people who have physical limitations, are frail, or who are at a higher risk of falls.

    For younger or fitter people, agility activities such as rapid stepping, dancing and running are likely to improve co-ordination and balance too.

    So next time you are carrying out your exercise routine, ask yourself: what am I doing to improve my balance? Investing in balance training now can help you avoid falls, and lead to greater independence in older age.

    Anne Tiedemann, Professor of Physical Activity and Health, University of Sydney; Cathie Sherrington, Professor, Institute for Musculoskeletal Health, School of Public Health, University of Sydney, and Geraldine Wallbank, Study Manager, PhD Candidate, Physiotherapist, University of Sydney

    This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.

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  • Human Connection In An All-Too-Busy World

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    Many of us, in many ways, have more discretionary time than everโ€ฆ On paper.

    But rather than the 8-hour block of work of yesteryear, nowadays the things that take our time often come in a series of short bursts that punctuate our day.

    This means that while in theory, we have n hours of โ€œfreeโ€ time per day, we actually have 9 minutes here, 23 minutes there, 1 hour 6 minutes somewhere else, and so on.

    Social commitments, meanwhile, tend to require not only that we have time in a block, but also, that the time around that block also be sufficiently free, for travelling, preparation, etc.

    The result? โ€œWe must do this again, and not leave it so long next time!โ€ we say, sincerely, to the friend whom we will next see again in approximately 17 monthsโ€™ time.

    The problem is how our many theoretically-small obligations reduce the rest of our time to โ€œtime confettiโ€, and that happens on the large scale like we saw above, as well as on the small scale of โ€œAh, I have an hour to relax between these two thingsโ€ and then suddenly the time is gone, once again reduced to time confetti:

    Time Confetti and the Broken Promise of Leisure

    So, how to maintain human connection with people beyond those with whom we live?

    Some is infinitely better than none

    Letโ€™s say you want to call a friend or relative. There may be generational differences in how much one is expected to arrange this by text first, vs just calling, but either way, you donโ€™t have to have an open-ended block of time, and sometimes, itโ€™s better if you donโ€™t.

    Establish, at the start of the call, โ€œBefore we get into catching up, how are we for time, by the way? For my part, Iโ€™ll have to go by such-and-such a timeโ€, and then work with that.

    The benefit of doing this is that youโ€™ll both know enough about the time constraints to use the time appropriately; you wonโ€™t run out the clock on smalltalk before getting to something big, and youโ€™ll both come away feeling satisfied that you shared and were shared-with in a meaningful fashion.

    In contrast, guessing at time constraints can leave big things clipped off, or else result in someone โ€œlooking for a way to politely end this conversation that stopped being interesting a while ago but itโ€™ll seem rude if I say I have to go nowโ€, of the kind that results in someone not being so open to a call next time.

    Donโ€™t rush to dismiss texts as a medium for meaningful connection

    When text messages were first a thing, youโ€™ll remember how we were all working within a very short character limit and a cost-per-message. It was telegrams for the modern age, basically.

    Nowadays, that isnโ€™t so; we can write as much or as little as we like, and this has two benefits:

    1. We can have longer, meaningful conversations around the other stuff in our life. We can reply in seconds, or after making a cup of tea and thinking about it, or after our grocery-shopping trip, or whenever suits us. Suddenly, time confetti isnโ€™t such a barrier to human connection. Writerโ€™s example: my prime social time in this manner is when Iโ€™m cooking dinner (which is often about an hour). Thereโ€™s no way I could have a phonecall while doing that; my bad hearing notwithstanding, I just have my hands full too often with much else going on. But texting? I can do that in the several-minute gaps between assorted culinary tasks, while Iโ€™m waiting for the kettle to boil or the onions to brown or whatever.
    2. Sometimes, the brevity makes it easier. A quick text saying โ€œHey, just to let you know Iโ€™m thinking of you, and hope your day is going well!โ€, or โ€œUnrelated to anything: I was just thinking about how Iโ€™m glad to have you in my life; youโ€™re a good friend, and I appreciate that more than I often remember to say. Anyway, thatโ€™s all; it was just on my mind. I hope your day is going well!โ€

    (The cheery closing words in those last two text message examples help signify: โ€œdonโ€™t worry, Iโ€™m fine and am not looking for anything from youโ€, which will help the recipient to relax, and counterintuitively, more likely to reply with some kind words of their own, knowing that theyโ€™re not signing up for a potentially deep talk when they also have time confetti issues going on)

    Seize the moment (and also let it go)

    You probably have many small interactions with strangers, most days. In the store, walking the dog, at the doctorโ€™s office, etc. So, two things:

    1. Make smalltalk. And if youโ€™re not one for traditional smalltalk topics (weather etc), or even if you are, a level-up is:
    2. Compliment sincerely. Straight out of โ€œHow To Win Friends And Influence Peopleโ€, of course, but it creates a moment of genuine connection; you say a thing, their day is improved, they smile, you complete your business with a smile of your own and go about your day.

    (of course, do steer clear of anything that could be interpreted as flirting, if that is not your intent, and really it should never be your intent when it comes to the captive audience of someone who will get fired if theyโ€™re not nice to you)

    But, with a little practice, these little moments add up to a lot more human connection than if we treat the strangers with whom we interact as though they were merely part of the scenery.

    Want more than that?

    Check out:

    How To Beat Loneliness & Isolation

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  • Blackberries vs Passion Fruit โ€“ Which is Healthier?

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    Our Verdict

    When comparing blackberries to passion fruit, we picked the passion fruit.

    Why?

    Both are great! But…

    In terms of macros, passion fruit has 2x the fiber, as well as more carbs and protein, making it the more macronutrient-dense option and scoring it an easy first-round victory.

    In the category of vitamins, blackberries have more of vitamins B9, E, and K, while passion fruit has more of vitamins A, B2, B3, B6, and C, for a modest yet clear win in this round.

    Looking at minerals, blackberries have more calcium, copper, and zinc, while passion fruit has more iron, magnesium, phosphorus, potassium, and selenium, winning it its third round in a row.

    In other considerations, blackberries do have more polyphenols, so that’s a round to blackberries.

    Adding up the sections makes for a clear overall win for passion fruit, but by all means do enjoy either or both, as diversity is best!

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  • What should I eat (and avoid) while breastfeeding? How does my diet affect babyโ€™sย milk?

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    Many people are familiar with the saying that a woman is โ€œeating for twoโ€ during pregnancy. Although this is an exaggeration, nutritional needs do certainly increase during pregnancy to support the growing baby.

    But whatโ€™s perhaps less known is that energy needs are actually even slightly higher during breastfeeding than during pregnancy.

    Human breastmilk is a dynamic liquid and its composition (including carbohydrates, fats, proteins, vitamins and minerals) varies over the entire breastfeeding period, and even between feeds.

    It can change depending on what mum is eating, environmental factors, and what the baby needs, through a biofeedback system (sometimes called โ€œbaby backwashโ€). For example, if a baby is starting to get sick, breastmilk will adjust to include more leukocytes, immune cells that fight infection.

    So what should breastfeeding women be eating? And how does a motherโ€™s diet influence the nutritional makeup of her milk?

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    Nutritional needs increase during breastfeeding

    Fully breastfeeding mums can produce around 800 millilitres of milk a day in the first six months after birth, which has an energy content of roughly 3 kilojoules per gram.

    Even factoring in using up excess fat stored during pregnancy, mums still need on average an extra 2,000 kilojoules to support milk production. This is roughly equivalent to adding a cheese sandwich, a handful of nuts and a banana on top of normal dietary intake.

    Interestingly, requirements donโ€™t drop off after the baby starts solids. In the second six months, milk production is thought to drop to an average of 600ml per day, as babies start to eat solid foods. But because maternal fat stores deplete by this stage, additional energy requirements remain similar.

    Some nutrients are particularly important during breastfeeding, including protein, calcium, iron, iodine and vitamins.

    For example, compared with a non-pregnant, non-breastfeeding woman, protein requirements increase by almost half when breastfeeding (from 0.75 grams to 1.1 grams per kg of body weight per day).

    Meanwhile, iodine requirements almost double (from 150 micrograms per day to 270 micrograms per day). Iodine is important for thyroid function, and can impact babyโ€™s growth and brain development.

    Itโ€™s important women who are breastfeeding eat a variety of foods, including:

    • high-protein foods (meat, fish, eggs, nuts, seeds, soy-based protein such as tofu and tempeh, legumes such as chickpeas, baked beans and lentils)
    • dairy foods or alternatives (for dairy alternatives, check calcium is included)
    • whole grains
    • fruits and vegetables.

    While making all that milk, drinking more water also becomes extremely important. Thirst is a good guide, but around 2.5 litres per day is generally recommended, or more if itโ€™s hot or with exercise.

    Is there anything I shouldnโ€™t be eating?

    What a mum consumes can pass into her breastmilk. For example, in one study, babies whose mothers drank small amounts of carrot juice while breastfeeding were more accepting of cereal flavoured with carrot juice compared with a control group of babies whose mothers drank water.

    Itโ€™s therefore important to limit alcohol and caffeine, which can also pass though to the baby. No alcohol is the safest choice, but if youโ€™re planning to have a drink, tools such as the Feed Safe app can be used to estimate when your breastmilk should be free of alcohol.

    Up to 200mg of caffeine per day (equivalent to roughly a cup of brewed coffee, an energy or cola drink, or four cups of tea) is considered safe for breastfeeding.

    Breastfeeding mums donโ€™t need to take any particular foods out of their diet to prevent allergies in their baby. In fact, experts believe babies exposed to common allergens via breast milk could be less likely to develop allergies to these foods, however we need more research into this question.

    Although relatively uncommon, babies can be allergic or intolerant to certain aspects of their mothersโ€™ diet when breastfeeding. They may react in the form of colic or wind, reflux, mucus or blood in their poo, eczema or rash, or appear to be in pain.

    In these cases, mumโ€™s diet may need adjustment. The most common culprits include cowsโ€™ milk (the protein, not the lactose component), soy and egg.

    Itโ€™s recommended to remove suspected foods from the diet for a minimum of three weeks. This should ideally be done with supervision from an Accredited Practising Dietitian who specialises in allergy, to ensure the motherโ€™s nutritional needs continue to be met.

    4 tips for breastfeeding mums

    1. itโ€™s a good idea to get a blood test to check your vitamin D and iron levels โ€“ these can be depleted over pregnancy and are important for breastfeeding. If your levels are low, you can discuss options with your doctor
    2. iodine requirements are so much higher in breastfeeding that an iodine supplement of 150 micrograms a day is recommended to support infant growth and neurodevelopment
    3. have a variety of nutritious snacks that can be eaten with one hand for those late-night feeds, such as peeled boiled eggs, a peanut butter sandwich on wholegrain bread, or avocado and cheese on a rice cake. My personal favourite is homemade rocky road with dark chocolate, nuts, seeds and dried fruit
    4. keep a drink bottle with water nearby when breastfeeding.
    Rocky road.
    The authorโ€™s home-made rocky road, which she gives as a gift to friends with new babies. Therese O’Sullivan/Author provided

    If youโ€™re considering a gift for a family with a new baby, remember new parentsโ€™ personal needs often take a back seat when bub arrives, including eating well. Consider a hearty frozen meal, muffins with oats and nuts, a nice stainless steel water bottle, gourmet trail mix or even some homemade rocky road.

    Therese O’Sullivan, Associate Professor in Nutrition and Dietetics, Edith Cowan University

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  • Focusing on how and why you eat, not just what, may be the key to healthy eating

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    When most people think about โ€œhealthy eatingโ€, they usually focus on what they eat. That might mean trying to eat more fruit and vegetables or less fast food, or counting calories.

    But thereโ€™s a lot more to healthy eating than just dietary intake. Behaviours and attitudes around food are also important.

    Take, for example, orthorexia nervosa, which is an obsessive preoccupation with consuming only โ€œhealthyโ€ foods. If healthy eating only means ingesting healthy foods, then people with orthorexia are super healthy.

    But people who live with this eating disorder often struggle with relationships and report poor quality of life, among other issues.

    Research suggests that shifting the focus from food itself to our experience of eating can have a range of health benefits. Letโ€™s take a look.

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    Why are we so obsessed with diet?

    Equating โ€œhealthy eatingโ€ with โ€œhealthy dietโ€ may have taken off in the early 1980s with panic over the โ€œobesity epidemicโ€ in Western countries โ€“ defined as a rapid rise in the prevalence of people in the population with a body mass index (BMI) of 30 or greater.

    But causes of obesity are complex and poorly understood, with numerous possible explanations beyond simply what a person eats. And admonishing overweight people to eat โ€œhealthierโ€ has done nothing to reduce population rates of obesity.

    There is some evidence that this fixation on weight has resulted in increased rates of disordered eating and eating disorders โ€“ both of which involve problematic eating behaviours and distorted attitudes towards food, weight, shape and appearance.

    Clearly, something needs to change in how we think about healthy eating.

    Listening to your body

    A growing body of research on intuitive eating has found this approach has an array of health benefits.

    Intuitive eating means trusting internal body cues that tell us when, what and how much to eat. For example, tuning into your stomach growling telling you itโ€™s time to eat, or noticing feeling full or satisfied, or that you may crave certain foods because your body wants specific nutrients (such as protein after exercising).

    Studies have shown this approach can lead to better physical and mental health as well as better diet quality, and is associated with lower BMIs.

    Research also shows eating at regular intervals and eating with other people also lead to better overall health and diet.

    But if you find it hard, youโ€™re not alone

    Most of us are surrounded by food environments that make healthy eating difficult.

    Unhealthy food environments promote overeating and encourage us to override our innate signals of hunger and fullness.

    When weโ€™re surrounded by cheap and accessible sugary snacks, fast foods and large portions โ€“ and lots of marketing โ€“ it can be hard to develop a positive relationship with food.

    The issue is particularly acute for people in more disadvantaged communities.

    For example, in our research with rural Australians about food and eating, most told us they wanted to eat more healthily, but found it difficult for many reasons, These included busy schedules and the cost of healthier food.

    Habits and emotional eating can also make healthy eating difficult.

    So, what works?

    For most people, healthy behaviours and attitudes to eating mean a balanced, flexible and non-judgmental approach, without fear of โ€œbadโ€ foods. It means paying attention to hunger and fullness cues.

    But it also means recognising that food is a source of social and cultural connection. A healthy attitude to food doesnโ€™t ignore nutritional information โ€“ it incorporates this knowledge into a broader and more joyous approach to eating.

    Here are three suggestions to get you started.

    1. Recognising signs of hunger and fullness

    These may differ from person to person. Can you hear your stomach start to growl or your energy begin to dip? Is it a while since you ate? And while eating, is there a point where the hunger has gone away and you no longer feel a strong desire to continue eating? Some people find using hunger and fullness scales useful.

    2. Reframing โ€œbadโ€ foods

    Is there a food you really like but donโ€™t eat because you consider it โ€œbadโ€ or โ€œforbiddenโ€? Try incorporating a small amount into your next meal or snack. You may find that doing so brings greater joy to your eating while simultaneously taking away its power.

    3. Eating with people

    If you normally eat by yourself or โ€œgrab and goโ€, see if thereโ€™s a way to plan more time for meals and include other people โ€“ whether this is more family meals or group lunches with coworkers.

    But some people have to follow a specific diet

    People with medical conditions that require a particular type of diet โ€“ such as those with diabetes or coeliac disease โ€“ need to follow that advice. But they may still be able to have healthy behaviours and attitudes towards food even within these constraints.

    For example, one 2020 study of people with type 2 diabetes found that more intuitive eaters had better control of their blood sugar levels.

    The bottom line

    So โ€“ if you donโ€™t have a medical condition that prevents it โ€“ go ahead and have some of that birthday cake. And then listen to your body when it tells you youโ€™ve had enough.

    If you feel that you have an unhealthy relationship with food that is interfering with your life, please contact your GP to discuss your options. You may also want to contact the Butterfly Foundation for support.

    Nina Van Dyke, Associate Professor and Associate Director, Mitchell Institute, Victoria University and Rosemary V. Calder, Professor, Health Policy, Victoria University

    This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.

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