
The Borderline Personality Disorder Workbook – by Dr. Daniel Fox
10almonds is reader-supported. We may, at no cost to you, receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.
Personality disorders in general get a bad rep. In part, because their names and descriptions often focus on how the disorders affect other people, rather than how they affect the actual sufferer:
- “This disorder gives you cripplingly low self-esteem; we call it Evil Not-Quite-Human Disorder”
- “This disorder makes you feel unloveable; we call it Abusive Bitch Disorder”
- …etc
Putting aside the labels and stigma, it turns out that humans sometimes benefit from help. In the case of BPD, characterized by such things as difficult moods and self-sabotage, the advice in this book can help anyone struggling with those (and related) issues.
The style of the book is both textbook, and course. It’s useful to proceed through it methodically, and doing the exercises is good too. We recommend getting the print edition, not the Kindle edition, so that you can check off boxes, write in it (pencil, if you like!), etc.
Bottom line: if you or a loved one suffers from BPD symptoms (whether or not you/they would meet criteria for diagnosis), this book can help a lot.
Click here to check out the BPD Workbook, and retake control of your life!
Don’t Forget…
Did you arrive here from our newsletter? Don’t forget to return to the email to continue learning!
Recommended
Learn to Age Gracefully
Join the 98k+ American women taking control of their health & aging with our 100% free (and fun!) daily emails:
-
Figs vs Strawberries – Which is Healthier?
10almonds is reader-supported. We may, at no cost to you, receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.
Our Verdict
When comparing figs to strawberries, we picked the figs.
Why?
Both are great! But…
In terms of macros, figs have more fiber, carbs, and protein, winning this round.
In the category of vitamins, figs have more of vitamins A, B1, B2, B3, B5, B6, B7, and K, while strawberries have more of vitamins B9, C, E, and choline. A 7:4 win for figs.
Looking at minerals, figs have more calcium, copper, magnesium, potassium, and zinc, while strawberries have more iron, manganese, phosphorus, and selenium, making a marginal 5:4 win for figs this time.
In other considerations, strawberries have a much higher polyphenol content, so that’s a point in their favor.
Adding up the sections makes for a clear overall win for figs, but by all means enjoy either or both; diversity is good!
Want to learn more?
You might like:
From Apples to Bees, and High-Fructose Cs: Which Sugars Are Healthier, And Which Are Just The Same?
Enjoy!
Share This Post
-
Take Care Of Your Lymphatic System To Beat Cognitive Decline
10almonds is reader-supported. We may, at no cost to you, receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.
First of all, for any unfamiliar with the lymphatic system, it’s mostly the body’s clean-up system (as well as a big part of the body’s anticancer system).
See: The Lymphatic System Against Cancer & More
It may not be the most glamorous job, but it’s certainly an essential one.
There’s no lymph in the brain, but…
Because of the blood-brain barrier (BBB) that keeps the astonishingly sensitive brain as safe as it can from unwanted things, there are many aspects of our physiology that only happen inside the brain, or only happen outside of it, as the compounds in question may be too large to get through the BBB.
The lymphatic system is, in and of itself, an entirely outside-of-the-brain affair. So, how does stuff get cleaned out from the brain (such as beta-amyloid and alpha-synuclein clearance, to avoid Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s, respectively)?
The glymphatic system (a portmanteau of glial cells doing the job of the lymphatic system) is the brain’s own cleanup crew, and we wrote about it here:
How To Clean Your Brain (Glymphatic Health Primer)
Why lymph still matters for the brain
Although the glymphatic system is doing a (hopefully) fine job of scrubbing up the brain, if the lymphatic system isn’t working at least as well, then this becomes the equivalent of what would happen if you at home were very attentive to taking the trash out, but the garbage disposal crews stopped doing their job, or did it much less well than they need to. Soon, you’d end up with a mountain of trash at home, even though you were doing your part correctly.
In short: the glymphatic system needs to pass the waste on somewhere, and the lymphatic system is its go-to.
You may be wondering about the role of blood in all of this, and the answer is that no part of any of the above systems can do its job without adequate oxygenation, and our blood also assists in the transport of things removed—which is one of the reasons why there are blood-based Alzheimer’s tests that can be done; they measure certain markers of neurodegeneration that become present in the blood having left the brain:
Early Dementia Screening From Your Blood & More ← the “and more” is actually quite interesting, but it’s the blood we’re interested in for this section
What can be done about it
Our first two links up above, about the lymphatic and glymphatic systems, respectively, also tell how to look after each of them, but we’ll mention a few salient pointers here.
For the lymphatic system:
- do lymphatic massage
- exercise, with a focus on maximizing movement
- eat an anti-inflammatory diet
For the glymphatic system:
- do vagal massage (Vagal! Not vaginal, which will not help! Or rather: it won’t help the glymphatic system, anyway)
- exercise, and/but also rest well (good quality sleep)
- eat omega-3 fatty acids
For more details and suggestions on each though, do check out:
Lymphatic health primer | Glymphatic health primer
How this was discovered
Until as recently as 2014, it was not known that there was any part of the lymphatic system around the brain, waiting to take things from the glymphatic system. Since then, research has slowly been done about the relationship between the two, how things work, and what affects what and how.
Most recently (the study was published two days ago, at time of writing this) it was discovered that, in mice at least, improving lymphatic function just outside of the brain (the meningeal lymphatic vessels, responsible for draining waste from the brain) improves memory.
Aged mice who underwent a process that rejuvenated the meningeal lymphatic vessels, performed better in memory tests afterwards.
How this worked, step-by-step:
- The mice were given a special protein that rejuvenated the meningeal lymphatic vessels¹
- The lymphatic vessels were then able to do their job better
- This meant that the glial cells of the glymphatic system were no longer drowning in excess stuff
- This reduced levels of a protein that says “help, too much stuff!” and starts inhibiting everything it can to try to cope²
- This meant that neural activity was no longer being suppressed, and memory improved
Technical bits for those who want it:
¹ We’re not being secretive about what this special protein was; it’s just that the special protein is called adeno-associated virus 1 cytomegalovirus murine vascular endothelial growth factor C, or “AAV1-CMV-mVEGF-C” for short, so for readability, “a special protein” does the job. Suffice it to say, a) you can’t exactly buy AAV1-CMV-mVEGF-C on Amazon, and b) you wouldn’t want it anyway, you’d want its close cousin AAV1-CMV-hVEGF-C (“m” for murine, i.e. mousey, vs “h” for human)
² This one’s just called interleukin-6 (IL-6); perhaps you’ve heard of interleukin; we’ve mentioned it sometimes before.
You can read the paper in its entirety here; if you don’t mind reading very technical stuff, it is very interesting:
Meningeal lymphatics-microglia axis regulates synaptic physiology
Enjoy!
Share This Post
-
10 Mobility & Strength Exercises to Move Better & Feel Younger!
10almonds is reader-supported. We may, at no cost to you, receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.
Mobility coach Alisa Szyman shows us how:
Keeping it moving
Doing the following thrice-weekly is sufficient for very noticeable benefits:
- Shoulder cars: stand tall with your feet hip-width apart, core engaged, and slowly lift your arm forwards, overhead, then rotate outwards. Complete 5 circles per direction per arm; improves shoulder mobility, joint health, posture, and body awareness.
- Lateral lunge & twist: step to side into lunge, elbow to bent knee. Your opposite arm reaches upward. Do alternate sides for 8–10 reps; strengthens hips, glutes, legs, and core while adding spinal rotation
- World’s greatest stretch: from kneeling, step into a deep lunge, rotate your arm upwards, then shift your hips backwards into a hamstring stretch. Tepeat 5–8 reps per side; improves hip flexor mobility, spine rotation, and hamstring flexibility.
- Hip cars: from kneeling, lift your knee forwards, outwards, then rotate back and return. Do 5 circles in each direction per leg; builds hip mobility, stability, joint health, and body control.
- Cat cow spine circles: from all fours, inhale your chest forward/exhale while rounding your spine or do spine circles. Do 10–15 reps (or 5–8 circles per direction); mobilizes spine and hips, improves posture and flexibility.
- Hip adductor & heel raises: kneel on one leg, with other leg out to side with your toes flat, and shift your hips for an inner-thigh stretch, then lift your heel for ankle mobility, before switching sides; stretches adductors, strengthens your groin, and improves ankle range.
- Side plank & reach: hold a side plank, with your top arm up and then reaching under body. Rotate your rib cage, and repeat 8–10 reps per side; strengthens obliques, spine rotation, and shoulder stability.
- Reverse tabletop: sit with your knees bent, hands behind, and press your hips up into a tabletop position. Squeeze your glutes, and open your chest. Do 8–10 reps; strengthens glutes, core, posterior chain, and opens shoulders and chest.
- 90/90 hip shifts: sit with your knees bent at 90°, and move your knees from side to side slowly. Do 8–10 reps per side; improves hip mobility in internal and external rotation, you can add torso rotation too if you like, which improves (you guessed it) torso rotation.
- Deep squat: hold a deep squat for 1 minute or do 10–12 reps; you can use your elbows to press your knees outwards for an additional stretch if you like; improves hip, ankle, spine mobility, and stretches adductors.
For more on each of these plus visual demonstrations, enjoy:
Click Here If The Embedded Video Doesn’t Load Automatically!
Want to learn more?
You might also like:
The Secret To Better Squats: Foot, Knee, & Ankle Mobility
Take care!
Share This Post
Related Posts
-
The Pain Reprocessing Therapy Workbook – by Vanessa Blackstone
10almonds is reader-supported. We may, at no cost to you, receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.
The author, a clinical consultant who trains practitioners in pain reprocessing therapy (PRT), lays out for us the basics of what we need to know to, as the subtitle promises, use the brain’s neuroplasticity to break the cycle of chronic pain.
She explains how when pain works correctly, it is a useful messenger saying “hey, something is wrong here”. It’s the body’s “check engine” light. However, in the case of chronic pain, it’s no longer helpful, which can be for one or more of several reasons, such as:
- The message is just plain wrong (nerves misfiring).
- There is an underlying problem, but it can’t be fixed, so further pain is not helpful.
- The pain is actually doing its job just fine, indicating a real, fixable problem, but the bad news is that your automatic response to that pain is an overcompensation that will now cause a different pain somewhere else, and so on.
PRT is a way to gently interrupt that process by changing how your brain, and thus your body, responds to pain signals. This means that for those three scenarios we just mentioned:
- We can now suffer less than previously.
- We can now note “ok, message received”, and dial down the continued pain signals.
- We can now note “ok, message received”, and tend to the thing without letting the pain cause our body to create a different problem somewhere else.
While all three are helpful, the latter item is the one that really lives up to the “break the cycle of chronic pain” promise, since referred pain (as it is called) is perhaps the most common source of enduring misery for people with many types of chronic pain, who started off with one source of pain, and then ended up with several more.
The style of the book is, as per the title, a workbook. It gives us explanations, and then exercises (mostly psychological exercises), giving us a roadmap to either a pain-free life or, at least, a life in which whatever pain remains is much more manageable, allowing us to go about our lives without everything being ten times as exhausting.
Bottom line: if you or a loved one has chronic pain, this book can help avoid a lot of needless suffering.
Click here to check out The Pain Reprocessing Therapy Workbook, and end the cycle of chronic pain!
Don’t Forget…
Did you arrive here from our newsletter? Don’t forget to return to the email to continue learning!
Learn to Age Gracefully
Join the 98k+ American women taking control of their health & aging with our 100% free (and fun!) daily emails:
-
Pinch Of Nom, Everyday Light – by Kay Featherstone and Kate Allinson
10almonds is reader-supported. We may, at no cost to you, receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.
One of the biggest problems with “light”, “lean” or “under this many calories” cookbooks tends to be the portion sizes perhaps had sparrows in mind. Not so, here!
Nor do they go for the other usual trick, which is giving us something that’s clearly not a complete meal. All of these recipes are for complete meals, or else come with a suggestion of a simple accompaniment that will still keep the dish under 400kcal.
The recipes are packed with vegetables and protein, perfect for keeping lean while also making sure you’re full until the next meal.
Best of all, they are indeed rich and tasty meals—there’s only so many times one wants salmon with salad, after all. There are healthy-edition junk food options, too! Sausage and egg muffins, fish and chips, pizza-loaded fries, sloppy dogs, firecracker prawns, and more!
Most of the meals are quite quick and easy to make, and use common ingredients.
Nearly half are vegetarian, and gluten-free options involve only direct simple GF substitutions. Similarly, turning a vegetarian meal into a vegan meal is usually not rocket science! Again, quick and easy substitutions, à la “or the plant-based milk of your choice”.
Recipes are presented in the format: ingredients, method, photo. Super simple (and no “chef’s nostalgic anecdote storytime” introductions that take more than, say, a sentence to tell).
All in all, a fabulous addition to anyone’s home kitchen!
Get your copy of “Pinch of Nom—Everyday Light” from Amazon today!
Don’t Forget…
Did you arrive here from our newsletter? Don’t forget to return to the email to continue learning!
Learn to Age Gracefully
Join the 98k+ American women taking control of their health & aging with our 100% free (and fun!) daily emails:
-
The Minerals That Neutralize Viruses (While Being Harmless To Humans)
10almonds is reader-supported. We may, at no cost to you, receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.
Researchers in Estonia and Sweden (it was a joint project, with five researchers from each country) have found a way to use titanium dioxide nanoparticles to neutralize viruses, including COVID & flu.
Titanium dioxide, yes, the common additive to foods, cosmetics, and more (in most cases, added as a non-bleaching whitening agent—simply, titanium dioxide is body-safe, white in color, and very reflective, making it a brilliant, shiny white). Also used in sunscreens, for its excellent safety profile and again, its full-spectrum reflectiveness.
See also: Who Screens The Sunscreens?
How it works
Some viruses, including coronaviruses and influenza viruses, have an outer layer that’s a lipid membrane. The researchers found (by testing against multiple viruses, and by using a control of silicotungstate polyoxymethalate nanoparticles), that the ability of titanium dioxide to bind to phospholipids (and ability that the silicotungstate polyoxymethalate doesn’t have) means that the nanoparticles bind to the virus’s outer case, thus preventing it from effectively entering human cells (which it needs to do in order to infect the host, as this is how viruses replicate themselves).
What this means, in practical terms
While more research will be needed to know whether this can be used in the medicinal sense, it already means that a nanoparticle spray can be used to create virus-neutralizing layers on surfaces and in air filters. This alone could greatly reduce transmission in enclosed spaces such as public transport (ranging from taxis to airplanes), as well as other places where people get packed into a small space.
If you have an air purifier at home, keep an eye out for when improved filters arrive on the market!
See also: What’s Lurking In Your Household Air?
Wait, you said “minerals”; are there more?
It seems so, but we can’t truly say for sure until they’ve been tested. However, the researchers see no reason why other small metal oxides that bind strongly to phospholipids shouldn’t work exactly the same way—which would include iron oxide (yes, as in rust) and aluminum oxide (the coating that automatically forms immediately when aluminum is exposed to oxygen (aluminum is so reactive to oxygen, that it’s almost impossible to get aluminum without an oxidized surface, unless you use something else to coat it, or cut it in an oxygen-free atmosphere and keep it there).
You can read the paper itself here:
Molecular mechanisms behind the anti corona virus activity of small metal oxide nanoparticles
And on a related note (different scientists, different science, similar principle, though, using mineral nanotechnology to kill microbes):
❝Researchers report that laboratory tests of their nanoflower-coated dressings demonstrate antibiotic, anti-inflammatory and biocompatible properties. They say these results show these tannic acid and copper(II) phosphate sprouted nanoflower bandages are promising candidates for treating infections and inflammatory conditions.❞
Read in full: This delicate nanoflower is downright deadly to bacteria
Want to learn more?
Check out:
Move over, COVID and Flu! We Have “Hybrid Viruses” To Contend With Now
Take care!
Don’t Forget…
Did you arrive here from our newsletter? Don’t forget to return to the email to continue learning!
Learn to Age Gracefully
Join the 98k+ American women taking control of their health & aging with our 100% free (and fun!) daily emails:







