The Other Significant Others – by Rhaina Cohen

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As we get older, it’s a function of statistics that increasingly many of us are divorced or widowed. While some will—after whatever time seems right to them—get back into dating, what about those of us who decide that we won’t?

Rhaina Cohen explores the importance of friendship, mutual support, and (Platonic!) closeness and yes, even kinds of intimacy (for that too can be Platonic!) as we go on.

Even from a purely evolutionary approach, we are fundamentally social creatures, and while as individuals we may exist on a spectrum from reclusive to extroverted, we all thrive better when we at least have access to community and friends.

The style of the book is easy-reading and exploratory, and is very compelling as a call-to-arms for those who may wish to give/receive support to/from those with whom we are not necessarily sleeping.

Because at the end of the day, why should sex and/or romance be a required feature for legal protections? Aren’t we adults who can make our own decisions about whom we trust to care for us?

Bottom line: if you’re happily partnered and expect to pre-decease your partner, this book might not be directly important for you (it might for your partner, though). Everyone else? This book may be important at some point. That point might even be now already; only you know.

Click here to check out The Other Significant Others, and make your own choices in life!

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  • The Japanese Traditional Medicine That Reduces Fat & Fibrosis

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    First, for any unfamiliar with what fibrosis is: it’s scar tissue found inside organs and muscles, caused not by external injury, but rather by inflammation of various kinds, including due to aging and metabolic dysfunction.

    We’ve previously written about fibrosis of various kinds in places such as:

    So, what’s this about Japanese traditional medicine?

    Bofutsushosan to the rescue?

    Bofutsushosan (BTS) is a traditional Japanese Kampo medicine used for weight loss, and it now seems (from early trials, at least) that it can also reduce age-related fibrosis.

    In a recent study by a team of Japanese researchers (Dr. Ayano Onishi et al.) to assess direct anti-fibrotic effects independent of weight loss, she and her team tested each of BTS’s 18 herbal and mineral ingredients individually.

    Of those, these four:

    …showed the strongest anti-fibrotic activity. In contrast, one of the common mineral ingredients, sal mirabilis, had the opposite effect, so that’s one to watch out for.

    However, did you notice the distinctly rodent-centric theme of the studies? For whatever reason, there have been a lot more non-human animal studies, and a lot that simply has not yet been rested in humans, so that is something to bear in mind as while usually things translate to humans, it’s not always so. Conjugated linoleic acid (CLA) for weight loss is a great example of this: CLA for Weight Loss? ← works fabulously in so many non-human animals, but for some unknown reason, not in us.

    As Dr. Onishi herself put it:

    Bofutsushosan is best known for its effects on obesity. Our findings suggest that it may also act on fibrosis associated with aging and obesity. Understanding the role of each ingredient could help guide future research into Kampo medicines, but human studies will be needed before the findings can be applied to treatment❞

    You can read the paper in full, here: Identification of anti-fibrotic components of Bofutsushosan under conditions of age-associated obesity in mice

    Want to do more meanwhile?

    As well as the articles we linked up top today, there are other things that can be done to reduce fibrosis risk, and/but nearly all of them are just different ways of approaching the same problem, namely, tackling chronic inflammation.

    So, with that in mind, here’s a good starting point: How to Prevent (or Reduce) Inflammation

    And for more, you might consider:

    The Complete Anti-Inflammatory Diet for Beginners – by Dorothy Calimeris and Lulu Cook

    Or, for that matter:

    Healthy Cook’s Anti-Inflammatory Diet & Cookbook – by Dr. Albert Orbinati

    Enjoy!

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  • Health & Happiness From Outside & In

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    A friend in need…

    In a recent large (n=3,486) poll across the US:

    • 90% of people aged 50 and older say they have at least one close friend
    • 75% say they have enough close friends
    • 70% of those with a close friend say they can definitely count on them to provide health-related support

    However, those numbers shrink by half when it comes to people whose physical and/or mental health is not so great, resulting in a negative feedback loop of fewer close friends whom one sees less often, and progressively worse physical and/or mental health. In other words, the healthier you are, the more likely you are to have a friend who’ll support you in your health:

    Read in full: Friendships promote healthier living in older adults, says new survey

    Related: How To Beat Loneliness & Isolation

    Kindness makes a difference to healthcare outcomes

    Defining kindness as action-oriented, positively focused, and purposeful in nature, this sets kindness apart from compassion and empathy, when it’s otherwise often been conflated with those, and thus overlooked. This also means that kindness can still be effected when clinicians are too burned-out to be compassionate, and/or when patients are not in a state of mind where empathy is useful.

    Furthermore, unkindness (again, as defined by this review) was found in large studies to be the root cause of ¾ of patient harm events in hospital settings. This means that far from being a wishy-washy abstraction, kindness/unkindness can be a very serious factor when it comes to healthcare outcomes:

    Read in full: Review suggests kindness could make for better health care

    Related: The Human Touch vs AI, The Doctor That Never Tires

    The gift of health?

    🎵 Last Christmas, I gave you my heart
    Which turned out to be a silly idea
    This year, to save me from tears
    I’ll just get you a Fitbit or something🎵

    Health & happiness go hand in hand, so does that make health stuff a good gift? It can do! But there are also plenty of opportunities for misfires.

    For example, getting someone a gym membership when they don’t have time for that may not help them at all, and sports equipment that they’ll use once and then leave to gather dust might not be great either. In contrast, the American Heart Association recommends to first consider what they enjoy doing, and work with that, and ideally make it something versatile and/or portable. Wearable gadgets are a fine option for many, but a gift doesn’t have to be fancy to be good—with a blood pressure monitoring cuff being a suggestion from Dr. Sperling (a professor of preventative cardiology):

    Read in full: Oh, there’s no gift like health for the holidays

    Related: Here’s Where Activity Trackers Help (And Also Where They Don’t)

    How you use social media matters more than how much

    A study commissioned by the European Commission’s Joint Research Centre found that while the quantity of time one spends on social media is not associated (positively or negatively) with loneliness, they did find a correlation between passive (as opposed to engaged) use of social media, and loneliness. In other words, people who were chatting with friends less, were more lonely! Shocking news.

    While the findings may seem obvious, it does present a call-to-action for anyone who is feeling lonely: to use social media not just to see what everyone else is up to, but also, to reach out to people.

    Read in full: Unpacking the link between social media and loneliness

    Related: Make Social Media Work For Your Mental Health Rather Than Against It

    Gut-only antidepressants

    Many antidepressants work by increasing serotonin levels in the brain; a new study suggests that targeting antidepressants to work only in the gut (which is where serotonin is made, not the brain) could not only be an effective treatment for mood disorders, but also cause fewer adverse side-effects:

    Read in full: Antidepressants may act in gut to reduce depression and anxiety

    Related: Antidepressants: Personalization Is Key!

    Take care!

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  • Sea Salt vs MSG – Which is Healthier?

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    Our Verdict

    When comparing sea salt to MSG, we picked the MSG.

    Why?

    Surprise! Or maybe not? The results of the poll for this one should be interesting, and will help us know whether we need to keep mentioning in every second recipe that MSG is a healthier alternative to salt.

    First of all, two things:

    • Don’t be fooled by their respective names, and/or with such, an appeal to naturalism. For example, hydroxybenzoic acids are a major group of beneficial phenolic compounds, whereas hemlock is a wildflower that grows in this writer’s garden and will kill you if you eat it. Actually hydroxybenzoic acids also grow here (on the apple tree), but that’s not the point. The point is: worry less about names, and more about evidence!
    • Don’t be fooled by the packaging. A lot of products go for “greenwashing” of one kind or another. You’re not eating the packaging (hopefully), so don’t be swayed by a graphic designer’s implementation of a marketing team’s aesthetic choices.

    If naturalism is for some reason very important to you though, do bear in mind that glutamates occur generously in many common foodstuffs (tomatoes are a fine, healthy example) and eating tomato in the presence of salt will have the same biochemical effect as eating MSG, because it’s the same chemicals.

    Since there are bad rumors about MSG’s safety, especially in the US where there is often a strong distrust of anything associated with China (actually MSG was first isolated in Japan, more than 100 years ago, by Japanese biochemist Dr. Kikunae Ikeda, but that gets drowned out by the “Chinese Restaurant Syndrome” fear in the US), know that this has resulted in MSG being one of the most-studied food additives in the last 40 years or so, with many teams of scientists trying to determine its risks and not finding any (aside from the same that could be said of any substance; anything in sufficient excess will kill you, including water or oxygen).

    Well, that’s all been about safety, but what makes it healthier than sea salt?

    Simply, it has about ⅓ of the sodium content, that’s all. So, if you are laboring all day in a field under the hot summer sun, then probably the sea salt will be healthier, to replenish more of the sodium you lost through sweat. But for most people most of the time, having less sodium rather than more is the healthier option.

    Want to learn more?

    You might like to read:

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  • Why do I poo in the morning? A gut expert explains

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    No, you’re not imagining it. People really are more likely to poo in the morning, shortly after breakfast. Researchers have actually studied this.

    But why mornings? What if you tend to poo later in the day? And is it worth training yourself to be a morning pooper?

    To understand what makes us poo when we do, we need to consider a range of factors including our body clock, gut muscles and what we have for breakfast.

    Here’s what the science says.

    H_Ko/Shutterstock

    So morning poos are real?

    In a UK study from the early 1990s, researchers asked nearly 2,000 men and women in Bristol about their bowel habits.

    The most common time to poo was in the early morning. The peak time was 7-8am for men and about an hour later for women. The researchers speculated that the earlier time for men was because they woke up earlier for work.

    About a decade later, a Chinese study found a similar pattern. Some 77% of the almost 2,500 participants said they did a poo in the morning.

    But why the morning?

    There are a few reasons. The first involves our circadian rhythm – our 24-hour internal clock that helps regulate bodily processes, such as digestion.

    For healthy people, our internal clock means the muscular contractions in our colon follow a distinct rhythm.

    There’s minimal activity in the night. The deeper and more restful our sleep, the fewer of these muscle contractions we have. It’s one reason why we don’t tend to poo in our sleep.

    Diagram of digestive system including colon and rectum
    Your lower gut is a muscular tube that contracts more strongly at certain times of day. Vectomart/Shutterstock

    But there’s increasing activity during the day. Contractions in our colon are most active in the morning after waking up and after any meal.

    One particular type of colon contraction partly controlled by our internal clock are known as “mass movements”. These are powerful contractions that push poo down to the rectum to prepare for the poo to be expelled from the body, but don’t always result in a bowel movement. In healthy people, these contractions occur a few times a day. They are more frequent in the morning than in the evening, and after meals.

    Breakfast is also a trigger for us to poo. When we eat and drink our stomach stretches, which triggers the “gastrocolic reflex”. This reflex stimulates the colon to forcefully contract and can lead you to push existing poo in the colon out of the body. We know the gastrocolic reflex is strongest in the morning. So that explains why breakfast can be such a powerful trigger for a bowel motion.

    Then there’s our morning coffee. This is a very powerful stimulant of contractions in the sigmoid colon (the last part of the colon before the rectum) and of the rectum itself. This leads to a bowel motion.

    How important are morning poos?

    Large international surveys show the vast majority of people will poo between three times a day and three times a week.

    This still leaves a lot of people who don’t have regular bowel habits, are regular but poo at different frequencies, or who don’t always poo in the morning.

    So if you’re healthy, it’s much more important that your bowel habits are comfortable and regular for you. Bowel motions do not have to occur once a day in the morning.

    Morning poos are also not a good thing for everyone. Some people with irritable bowel syndrome feel the urgent need to poo in the morning – often several times after getting up, during and after breakfast. This can be quite distressing. It appears this early-morning rush to poo is due to overstimulation of colon contractions in the morning.

    Can you train yourself to be regular?

    Yes, for example, to help treat constipation using the gastrocolic reflex. Children and elderly people with constipation can use the toilet immediately after eating breakfast to relieve symptoms. And for adults with constipation, drinking coffee regularly can help stimulate the gut, particularly in the morning.

    A disturbed circadian rhythm can also lead to irregular bowel motions and people more likely to poo in the evenings. So better sleep habits can not only help people get a better night’s sleep, it can help them get into a more regular bowel routine.

    Man preparing Italian style coffee at home, adding coffee to pot
    A regular morning coffee can help relieve constipation. Caterina Trimarchi/Shutterstock

    Regular physical activity and avoiding sitting down a lot are also important in stimulating bowel movements, particularly in people with constipation.

    We know stress can contribute to irregular bowel habits. So minimising stress and focusing on relaxation can help bowel habits become more regular.

    Fibre from fruits and vegetables also helps make bowel motions more regular.

    Finally, ensuring adequate hydration helps minimise the chance of developing constipation, and helps make bowel motions more regular.

    Monitoring your bowel habits

    Most of us consider pooing in the morning to be regular. But there’s a wide variation in normal so don’t be concerned if your poos don’t follow this pattern. It’s more important your poos are comfortable and regular for you.

    If there’s a major change in the regularity of your bowel habits that’s concerning you, see your GP. The reason might be as simple as a change in diet or starting a new medication.

    But sometimes this can signify an important change in the health of your gut. So your GP may need to arrange further investigations, which could include blood tests or imaging.

    Vincent Ho, Associate Professor and clinical academic gastroenterologist, Western Sydney University

    This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.

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  • Banana vs Peach – Which is Healthier?

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    Our Verdict

    When comparing banana to peach, we picked the banana.

    Why?

    In terms of macros, bananas have more fiber, carbs, and protein, making them the more nutrient-dense option in this category.

    In the category of vitamins, bananas have more of vitamins B1, B2, B5, B6, B7, B9, C, and choline, while peaches have more of vitamins A, B3, E, and K. An 8:4 win for bananas here, though peaches are still good too.

    Looking at minerals, bananas have more copper, iron, magnesium, manganese, phosphorus, potassium, and selenium, while peaches have more calcium and zinc. An easy win for bananas.

    When it comes to phytochemicals, both have their merits, but peaches have some anticancer properties that bananas don’t—see link below. So that’s a point in peaches’ favor.

    Adding up the sections makes for an overall win for bananas, but by all means enjoy either both; diversity is good!

    Want to learn more?

    You might like:

    Top 8 Fruits That Prevent & Kill Cancer

    Enjoy!

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  • Is thunderstorm asthma becoming more common?

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    When spring arrives, so do warnings about thunderstorm asthma. But a decade ago, most of us hadn’t heard of it.

    So where did thunderstorm asthma come from? Is it a new phenomenon?

    In 2016, the world’s most catastrophic thunderstorm asthma event took Melbourne by surprise. An increase in warnings and monitoring is partly a response to this.

    But there are also signs climate change may be exacerbating the likelihood of thunderstorm asthma, with more extreme weather, extended pollen seasons and a rise in Australians reporting hay fever.

    A landmark catastrophe

    The first time many Australians heard of thunderstorm asthma was in November 2016, when a major event rocked Melbourne.

    During a late night storm, an estimated 10,000 people were rushed to hospitals with severe asthma attacks. With thousands of calls on emergency lines, ambulances and emergency departments were unprepared to handle the rapid increase in people needing urgent medical care. Tragically, ten of those people died.

    This was the most catastrophic thunderstorm asthma event in recorded history and the first time deaths have ever occurred anywhere in the world.

    In response, the Victorian Department of Health implemented initiatives, including public awareness campaigns and improvements to health and emergency services, to be ready for future thunderstorm asthma events.

    A network of pollen monitoring stations was also set up across the state to gather data that helps to predict future events.

    A problem for decades

    While this event was unexpected, it wasn’t the first time we’d had thunderstorm asthma in Australia – we’ve actually known about it for decades.

    Melbourne reported its first instance of thunderstorm asthma back in 1984, only a year after this phenomenon was first discovered in Birmingham in the United Kingdom.

    Thunderstorm asthma has since been reported in other parts of Australia, including Canberra and New South Wales. But it is still most common in Melbourne. Compared to any other city (or country) the gap is significant: over a quarter of all known events worldwide have occurred in Melbourne.

    Why Melbourne?

    Melbourne’s location makes it a hotspot for these kinds of events. Winds coming from the north of Melbourne tend to be dry and hot as they come from deserts in the centre of Australia, while winds from the south are cooler as they come from the ocean.

    When hot and cool air mix above Melbourne, it creates the perfect conditions for thunderstorms to form.

    Northern winds also blow a lot of pollen from farmlands into the city, in particular grass pollen. This is not only the most common cause of seasonal hay fever in Melbourne but also a major trigger of thunderstorm asthma.

    Why grass pollen?

    There’s a particular reason grass pollen is the main culprit behind thunderstorm asthma in Australia. During storms there is a lot of moisture in the air. Grass pollen will absorb this moisture, making it swell up like a water balloon.

    If pollen absorbs too much water whilst airborne, it can burst or “rupture,” releasing hundreds of microscopic particles into the air that can be swept by powerful winds.

    Normally, when you breathe in pollen it gets stuck in your upper airway – for example, your nose and throat. This is what causes typical hay fever symptoms such as sneezing or runny nose.

    But the microscopic particles released from ruptured grass pollen are much smaller and don’t get stuck as easily in the upper airway. Instead, they can travel deep into your airways until they reach your lungs. This may trigger more severe symptoms, such as wheezing or difficulty breathing, even in people with no prior history of asthma.

    So who is at risk?

    You might think asthma is the biggest risk factor for thunderstorm asthma. In fact, the biggest risk factor is hay fever.

    Up to 99% of patients who went to the emergency department during the Melbourne 2016 event had hay fever, while a majority (60%) had no prior diagnosis of asthma.

    Every single person hospitalised was allergic to at least one type of grass pollen. All had a sensitivity to ryegrass.

    Is thunderstorm asthma becoming more common?

    Thunderstorm asthma events are rare, with just 26 events officially recorded worldwide.

    However there is evidence these events could become more frequent and severe in coming years, due to climate change. Higher temperatures and pollution could be making plants produce more pollen and pollen seasons last much longer.

    Extreme weather events, including thunderstorms, are also expected to become more common and severe.

    In addition, there are signs rates that hay fever may be increasing. The number of Australians reporting allergy symptoms have risen from 15% in 2008 to 24% in 2022. Similar trends in other countries has been linked to climate change.

    How can I prepare?

    Here are three ways you can reduce your risk of thunderstorm asthma:

    • stock up on allergy medication and set up an asthma action plan with your GP
    • check daily pollen forecasts for the estimated pollen level and risk of a thunderstorm asthma event in your local area
    • on days with high pollen or a high risk of thunderstorm asthma, spend less time outside or wear a surgical face mask to reduce your symptoms.

    Kira Morgan Hughes, PhD Candidate in Allergy and Asthma, School of Life and Environmental Sciences, Deakin University

    This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article.

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