Do You Struggle To Comfortably Sit Cross-Legged? Here’s How To Fix That

Are you sitting comfortably? No? Then let’s begin…

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Difficulty comfortably sitting cross-legged is very common usually reflects limited hip mobility, rather than any particularly advanced flexibility problem. It’s not like one is trying and failing to sit in the lotus position, or with one’s feet behind one’s ears or something. So, why is such difficulty so common?

Simply, the body adapts to what we do with it (or not), and so a lack of habituation quickly becomes a lack of mobility. Multiply that by decades of life, and if the last time you sat cross-legged was in kindergarten, then there’s the reason. Fortunately, it’s not too tricky to fix.

First, do a self-check: sit cross-legged and notice (dis)comfort, knee height, and whether one hip feels markedly stiffer than the other.

Next, to get your hips used to being opened more: lean back on your hands, place your feet together, and actively open one hip at a time by shifting your weight from side to side. You can also do the butterfly option, and bring both feet together (soles touching each other) and gently bounce your knees to encourage hip opening. On which note…

With regard to knee height: use controlled effort to guide each knee closer to the floor and compare sides, rather than simply hoping for them to drop passively due to gravity. Because, yes, you can and should work with gravity on this, but you can’t rely on it entirely, since the body will only adapt to what’s done with it, so if it’s easier for the body for the knees to stay higher, then higher is where the knees will stay. So, gently pushing them down is important here, and the best way to do this is to place your elbows against your knees and press dowwards to open your hips without holding on.

Also! Do note that the perceived symmetry of sitting cross-legged is an optical illusion—one leg is, after all, in front of the other. So, do regularly change which leg is in front, to balance mobility between sides.

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